what do you do when you see your neighbour cheating on his hubby?

Give the spouse a hypothetical situation and ask later What if this happens to you? What would you do? And then comment on something like People should make an effort about what their spouses are up to... The whole neighborhood knows already and the only creature who doesn't know is Oooops! I'm sorry I should be going now...

I try to let neighbors take care of their own lives. if what they do interferes with my life, then I would take a stand.

I would say it was it doesn't concern you much, but we all look out for our neighbours no matter how much we don't get on at times..... so to be honest theres nothing wrong with being concerned... although if you managed to ever mention it to the other person would they believe you anyway? Its a hard thing to say to someone... but hopefully the other person finds out before its too late.

The question if the spouses cheating concern us is indeed a good question. The fact is it is not our business but we do feel sorry for the one being cheated and would think of telling him/her. I think, I will just keep my mouth shut and just let them handle their own problem.

It shouldn't concern you. You should be concerned whether your spouse is cheating on you instead.

Are you sure they are cheating? They could be in an open relationship (I know three married couples that are, so it more common than you might think) You may not be completely aware of all the facts. Things are not always what they seem. I feel that unless the neighbor is a best friend of yours, it simply is not your business. Though, I think its very nice that you are concerned and care. Have a great night!

If it was someone close to you like a friend or family member that would be different. But this I would stay clear of too. Who knows how their relationship is. He may even know already. He may be doing the same thing.

I would have to say that unless I am really chummy with the neighbor I would apt to say something to the actual cheater, as I could not face the person being cheated on as I would have to continually lie. If I am not chummy with them then I simply mind my own business.