what are you thoughts on bosses who are married cheating on their spouses?Have
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
November 6, 2010 8:43pm CST
What do you think of "bigwigs" who run companies that
cheat on their wives or husbans.. I don't want to point my
finger at any one person or any one gender..
We all know it happens. I have known of it happening where
I worked between our boss and an employee.. He had 2 children and a wife.
I only learned of the facts after I was no longer there, thank God.
Have you ever known bosses to wield their power to have
hidden affairs with employees? What is your opinion of the
infidelity to spouses such as this?
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9 responses
@garychie (157)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
I really hate these kind of people. I am a wife, myself, and if i get to learn my husband is cheating on me I will really explode like a volcano and end the relationship right there and then. These kind of people who practice infidelity are not contented to try one flesh that they have to taste other flavours just for the sake of bodily pleasure.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
sad to say, not as many women..or men.. have the courage
to walk away from their cheating spouse ..they are afraid of
winging it alone..They don't have enough self confidence to believe
they are worth more then their cheating spouse is doing to them.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I have and I find I have absolutely no respect especially when they make their foolish acts public and whether he is a boss or not he certainly should not be doing that.
But hey it happens and well they simply should be ashamed of themselves as if they are not happy at home, it would be much more respectful to let the wife go and not hurt her terrible later.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I know what you mean.. and I think both parties
in such a situation should be ashamed of themselves.
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I don't know for sure if any of my bosses have ever cheated but I have suspected a couple of them of cheating. I think it is very disrespectful regardless of who the person is. I would feel very uncomfortable around a boss and the employee if I knew they were cheating.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I remember confronting the person I heard was cheating
and tellng her .. that he and she should be ashamed...
The boss was married and had little children.
Wealth gave him a ticket to hell, I suppose?
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
7 Nov 10
they are jerks, most of them use thier power in a company to get what they want, and the ones who they cheat with figure its towards their benfit or just scared to say no
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Usually if a person has money and is found to be cheating that way;
more then likely he/she is also cheating and doing wrong somewhere else
too..The power of money .. seems it covers a multitude of sins
in the business world..sigh!
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
7 Nov 10
We may not know the reasons that a boss is cheating on their spouse. it is not our place to judge them on this.If the cheating is done in the workplace, it can make it more difficult to ignore.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I think it's our duty to the other to say something of decency and
morality.. To say it's not our place.. that's just sending a signal
to the cheater that you are in accord..
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@preppydezza (309)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
I dislike and hate those individuals who cheat with their partners. But we should not judge them by it alone, there are so many factors why they do it. Even if i hate them, they have to be respected. they are people too who makes mistakes every now and then
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Sorry..no respect for a man or woman who cheats and makes a front
to their spouse as if they are not.
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@thinkingoutloud (6127)
• Canada
8 Nov 10
Some people in positions of power or authority end up with an extreme sense of entitlement. Think about the athletes, celebrities and more that we hear about who cheat with a huge number of partners. They believe themselves to be important and entitled to have whatever and whomever they want. Cheating on a spouse is a deal breaker in my books... I don't care if the person is unemployed or running a Fortune 500 company. I have no respect for anyone that does it and I don't think there is ever an excuse that is good enough to justify it.
@joey_matthews (8354)
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7 Nov 10
I don't think they're very professional, as a boss they should set an example and it really annoys me to see bosses who do this as if it was me they would fire me for personal reasons without actually having a right. Where as when a boss does it, not a normal employ it sends out a message which is utterly wrong. My current boss (female) she likes to use my Illness against me, as if I don't cover shifts that other people let her down on my own shifts are effected. Oddly enough she doesn't take action against the one's who let her down as she knows they'll work out as they don't actually care about the job.
It's a shame I can't just find another job easily, would be great to get away from her but at the end of the day I am happy to have the job.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Hello Joey sorry to hear that you have such a vindictive boss.
IT's terrible when bosses let their power go to their head and
begin to walk around like they can do what they want..
Eventually..their meanness and wrongnesss will come back to kick
them and they will see how wrong they were..
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@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
No, I haven't. I only heard similar situations from others. Boss or not, I think they must not cheat on their spouses. I guess a divorce or separation would do rather than continue with a bad marriage and put the rest of the family in shame, worse in a public scandal.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Sometimes the cheater won't grant the other a divorce
as he/she doesn't want to give up what they have jointly
through marriage..or risk having to pay out for alimony or
child support..it's sad ..and what's worse many times they walk
around like they are God's gift to the world.. Ideal boss of the
year..yet .so much is going on behind the public eye!
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