WOMEN ONLY! Woman's intuition?
By ceecee1217
@ceecee1217 (122)
United States
November 6, 2010 10:35pm CST
Okay so I recently got married, and alot of people who didn't know, or didn't expect it so soon have all been asking the same question! They are all asking if I am pregnant! Ok so this isn't just one or two people, this is like 10-15 asking! At first I just laughed it off, but now....not so much. Everyone is still asking or poking fun about it. I'm really starting to freak out a bit.
My breasts have started getting tender, I haven't gotten my monthly gift yet, I'm tired more often, I can't umm....go to the bathroom as often, my stomach feels tight (or a feeling like your full after a big meal) all the time. I feel like I am having a few signs of early pregnancy, but idk if I am just siking myself out or if something is really happening. UGH
No, I haven't taken a test yet. I plan on getting one tomorrow. (this is just kind of like a vent for me lol)
This ever happen to anyone else?
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4 responses
@xxohmykate (41)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I wouldn't worry about it until you're sure you're late or until you've seen a positive result from a pregnancy test. The people asking you about it probably haven't actually noticed anything, they're just poking fun at you; after all, the next usual step after marriage is kids.
@ceecee1217 (122)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Very true, and I don't know why it is bothering me because my family has teased me about it before when I have had a craving for food or something lol. I'm just waiting to find out for sure. Thanks for the comment though :o)
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
7 Nov 10
If you aren't late I wouldn't worry. You feel kind of prego about a week before your cycle. You get bloated and stiff and those emotions. Every time I am about to start I wonder if I am pregnant then in a week I start. You could also add to it by thinking you are pregnant. The mind is a powerful thing. But then again you could also really be pregnant, who knows. But the natural thing for people after their friends or relatives get married is to expect a baby soon down the road. I mean that's the picture perfect life most people paint. Careers, married, kids, grandkids, retire happy and wealthy right.
@ceecee1217 (122)
• United States
7 Nov 10
You are absolutely right. I have a feeling it is just me freaking out, but there is a little voice back there saying I am. I have never gotten bloated, crampy or emotional before my period, but I'm not putting it past. I am late, but just patiently waiting lol. I'm taking a test just to make sure :o) Thanks for ur comment
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Firstly congrats on your marriage. Hope you and your husband live long happy years. As for being pregnant well unless you are truly really late I would not worry. Although I must say that as women when we worry too much about the possibility of unexpectedly being pregnant that we have a tendency to cause amenoria which is common for most wonder under stress.
So as soon as you if you are not not pregnant will come back and let us know?
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Nov 10
the manifestations that you have could be caused by this stressfull sitiaon. and you could also make yourself ideas that you're pregnant when you really aren';t because of that. the only thing that you should worry is the fact that you didn't get you period first.but this doesn't necessarely mean that you're pregnant. you could have caught a cold, or you could have hormonal problems. get the test and tell us the resuslt.kisses
