He has someone else but still wants to continue with me..

@joygracia (1325)
Philippines
November 7, 2010 4:54am CST
would you go if the guy you really love asked you to still go on with you inspite he had someone else?
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8 responses
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
It's a big NO. Even if i love him that much but still it doesn't give him the authority to hurt me over and over again. Even if i love him that much. It is still an insult on my part to go on with our relationship even if he is seeing someone else. I guess I would tell it straight to his face to put his self on my shoe. What would he feel if he was on my situation?
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
I did say no to him and I bow not to see him again.. he is insignificant to me from now on.
• Mauritius
7 Nov 10
I always thought the answer would be a big NO for me. but i fell in love with my married best friend.. And i know that he has problems with her.. I am currently with him.. but he says he'll leave her by next year.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
I understand your point. your situation is different though. He does love you I guess if he is willing enough to leave his wife but be mindful also that it will be hurtful in the wife`s position. I may advice that if he really loves you, he will really leave her and end everything to start new relationship with you. In my case, I guess I`m same disposition with the wife. My ex does not love me anymore because of another girl. Its painful being in this situation. How I wish I could just erase it all through out...
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
It's a big no for me joy. No matter how much i love that person. What's the point of asking you to still go on even he has another? He wanted to make a fool out of you. It only show he does not respect you and take your feelings for granted. I will certainly won't let them play with my feelings. That is so inconsiderate of him to do that. This person does not really love you. He wants you to stick because you have something that he wanted to get. In the end he will surely dump you when he has enough and left you with no self respect. Take cautions with this type of person.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
Yes. that`s what I realize after telling him I cant do this anymore with him. I did told him I`m the pittiful one and decided to stop seeing him. I decided he not worth the cry anymore so after we`ve talked about it, I kept myself busy and go out with friends and stuff coz I know he will be happy with her and Its not worth it if I cry over this unworthy man. Its still painful though, but I think I can forget this once I stop this stupid love with him.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
7 Nov 10
I think that accepting a situation like that would be setting yourself up for pain. If he is in a relationship with someone else he needs to work on that and take the time required to get over the ex. personally I think that one should give one time when he or she has broken up.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
Yes that was what I told him. I would end up the being hurt more if this continues. I didn`t reply probably coz he is aware of what he did. That`s good anyways at least it will be completely over between us.
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• Portugal
7 Nov 10
no joy talk with him and if he says that he loves you then you tell him if you love me then leave your gf. otherwhise we cant be together. you cant be with a guy that you are not even sure if he will leave his gf for you someday. also no one deserves to be cheated, poor his gf. so you talk with him and say that for keep being with you need to leave his gf. if he really loves you he will do that bcs why will he need her if has you the love of his life? if he doesnt do that is bcs he doesnt really love you. wish you the best^^
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
And I realize that he never did love me since he never answered when I said it would be hurtful for me if we continue. He did not comfort me. He is one of those stupid player who is very insensitive I guess. I was so blinded coz he is my first love. But its over now. As long as I`ll get over this, then things will be okay. I dont wanna see him again.
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
it would be a pain in the neck if you still be seing this guy. what was the level of his relationship with that someone? is she his wife? if it is then end your relationship with this guy. there where still fishes in the ocean that's waiting for you to catch them. and we can never tell maybe he would be the one destined for your love, worth it of your love. i think this guy you really love is just want to make fool of you, maybe he can feel that you are madly inlove with him that you can take everything even he has someone else. have pride., love yourself and think of the future. put yourself in his someone else's place. what would you also feel. this guy doesnt deserve any love. :)
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
17 Nov 10
This object of your affections doesn't sound like they really know what they want from a relationship. they can't have it both ways and make everyone happy. Some will be hurt and suffer if this person continues to have two different relationships at the same time. You need to know where you really stand with this person. They have to make the choice so your own life can move forward.
@Veagle (85)
• China
8 Nov 10
If I were a girl and my boyfriend do that,I will leave him without saying anything. Some of my friends are the kind of that.Although they already have girlfriends they still want to chase another girl.