how will you judge a married woman inlove with another man?

We can't choose who we love. If a married woman is flirting with another man, she can't be totally committed to her marriage. She will just bring more problems for everyone by continuing a relationship with the one she isn't married to. she has to decide who she wants to be with.

I don't think she will have a good ending in her life. She should faith and commit to her marriage. If she can betray to her husband and love another guy. Will she repeat the same to this guy later? What will be her impression to her children if she has any? I hope she will not regret later.

Simple. You will tell your friend that "Your in big trouble if you push through a relationship with another man". Everybody can fall with somebody at whatever points in our lives, but the question is, how ready are you for the consequences and the responsibilities of your actions? As a friend, it is important for you to warn her if she listens to you fine and good. If not, then at least you've done your part in warning her. That's all that matter now.

Well she is married after the love of a husband a woman is obliged to love her children.it's just a mess why would she love another man isnt 1 husband enough for her if she doesnt want her husband to take another why would she and all I gotta say is the children will be the most hit you brought in diamonds in life to torture them or love and nurture them that's how I see it

Your friend is definitely not a flirt. Love is a feeling and feeling cannot be helped. Then only thing she can do now is to remind herself that she is married and should not do anything to ruin the marriage.

If your friend was happily married, she would not have fallen in love with another man. Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging her, I just think there is more to the story than you know or can share. Sometimes people are not happy in their marriage, but think they should stay because of the marriage vows. I know women who stayed even in abusive marriages for that reason. I think by time a persons heart is open to loving another the marriage has been gone for awhile, the real love of the marriage I mean. It may not seem right, so the person fights it because of the loyalty to the idea of their marriage. I believe that marriage should last a lifetime, and that if both spouses work at it from the beginning and continue to do so this sort of situation wouldn't happen. But once a marriage is broken, things like this can happen. She has a choice to make, stay away from the other man and work on her marriage, or get a divorce and be with someone new.

at times in a relationship, when it gets stagnant...at times it gets so routine that your feelings drift off..it does happen you look for what is lacking in your husband. tell your friend to think about it hard, she might be destroying her family for nothing worth it. or if she can risk it all, she might get divorce and be happy with a new man, but ther would be consequences.

The love is a feelings so everybody has the right to feel in love. But because sometimes when we feel this love we are on the wrong position or stage of life. Like what had happen to your friend we never blame her why she feel inlove because maybe there is something that she is looking to a guy that nothing from his current lover or husband. I think that she is looking for the completeness of her desire. I hope that she can control herself to fall inlove with him while she is still married to her husband if not married well hope and goodluck to her new found love.

It is normal if we have feeling towards someone, but.....if we`re in relationship, especially if we`re already married, of course, we must have self-control. Sorry to ask, your best friend already has kids?How about his hubby?Is he a nice and responsible husband?your best friend should remember her marriage commitment, if they have problems, please refresh her mind:Why did she get married?what for?what is the commitment?Well, i just remember one of my old Def Leppard`s song" Love and Affection". I like this song, and when I was in teenage listening to this song, I just like it without knowing the lyric however, I heard something unusual in this lyric and I started to laugh after I read one of the lines" You`re just another girl, I am just another man, it`s just another night"..oh, what the HELL???LOL. I am sure, everyone has experience that, but keep in mind:remember your COMMITMENT

As a person who strongly believes and does not believe in so called coincidences we are all for it this life is not gonna last forever and it has a purpose if it didn't wouldn't be a test. I don't get that first time attraction thing that some people say looooooooool yah sure she might be so beautiful or he's so handsome but it has nothing to do with controlling yourself, sure if you expose yourself to being flattered and emotions your gonna forget as a human being that's why I believe you should not even come near this stuff especially when your married, our desires flow in us like bee stings their just unexpected and the signs are there that tell us to stop before it gets out of hand because to an extent we don't have fall control of ourselves in different situations and conditions like poverty for example and situations where you always tend to forget so as human we should be cautous and careful for what we do may bite us in the back

"she tried to ignore" is one big step for her as falling in love with another while still in a marriage can be really hard. im just not sure about the happily married thing, maybe thats how you see her but i dont think she would let you in on every detail thats happening between her and her husband. from how i see it, she's not being flirty; she's finally getting the courage to admit to herself that she needs to move on and find her own happiness. that or she needs to assess her true feelings towards her marriage or the guy she just met. SOME do not just fall in love just because they want to take it as an experiment. and i hope your friend is ready enough to take on criticisms associated with her choices.she has to establish proper reasons and make sure to be responsible for her actions. you dont have to give her advice because i know she wouldnt listen anyway. she just needs someone close to her who would understand and not judge her. its easier said that what she's doing is wrong just because its how society dictates it should be. try filling in for her shoes and be as realistic as you can be. you can never really say negative things about the situation unless youve been there and done that... good luck to you and to her :)

You're friend is a married woman, therefore she is aware that she shouldn't feel that way towards another guy. It is true that she cannot keep herself from falling in love because love is something that we cannot control, but she should know that she's already married and she has the responsibility to keep the relationship with her husband and do something to avoid the man she fell in love with. Or if she is really in love with that guy and the guy also love her, the only thing they can do is to have a legal separation so they can marry.

i suggested he/she better forget it, because to build small and happy family its very difficult, so to be able to forget him/her try to find another acitivites, and hold the trust your partner is more difficult to maintain

I think it depends with reason why she married her husband. I believe we all have certain reasons for that. Maybe when they got married she's so in love with him but during their times together, she suddenly fell out of love. Or maybe she's looking for something her husband lacks and found it with the other guy.

You don't accidentally fall in love with someone else when you are married. You allow yourself to seek attention outside of the marriage and it is WRONG. Your friend needs to figure out what it is that she wants from her marriage if she plans to stay in it. She then needs to cut off all communication with the other man if she is staying with the husband. It is unfair to her husband and her marriage if she continues the relationship with the other man. If she doesn't want to save the marriage then she has to let her husband go!!

She's not a flirt but she could be weak. Besides, she's only human and just like the case of a lot of people who fall in love, she could be blinded like the rest of them. There's nothing wrong in falling in love but the fact that she's married makes all the difference. In this case, she needs to choose among the two. If it's her husband then she needs to forget about the other guys and just sing the song with the lyrics "We have the right love at the wrong time..." until she forget about the guy completely. If she wants to be with the other guy, then she should discuss this with her husband and make the necessary steps for separation.

She can't help her feelings, but she can help her actions. A good exercise is to pretend that it is 5, or 10, or 20 years in the future, and she is looking back on this period in her life. Is her future self going to regret it if she has an affair?

She's unfaithful and unloyal woman. Poor on your friend having a wife like her. By the time she got married, she should have been thinking about removing 'fall in love' words from her dictionary. Love is just for her husband, son, father, and other family. But 'fall in love' is only for husband. She has to ask forgiveness to her husband. And the husband, must not do such thing toward his wife in turn.

no attraction happen when u r going through a phase in life not always think if she ignores taht person for some time she will know the true feelings she haev for him then she can deside and i m no one to judge her its her life

The fact that she is married should be the basis of her actions. It's nature for us humans to be attracted to other people. What your friend is feeling is a strong attraction to that guy. She should not nurture that feeling knowing that she has already a family. She should be firm with her commitment to love her husband. That is just one of the challenges of married life.