Would you go to the wedding?

Although a wedding is supposed to be a celebration of the couple, I would also like to think that is a farewell to a loved one. So, it doesn't matter if I hate the person he or she is marrying, or that I know that the marriage is doomed, I will still go to the wedding. Even if it is just to say that I'll be around in happy or not-so-happy times.

I would go just to have fun and enjoy myself!I would Support the person even though I don't like them! I have not been to a wedding where I knew it would never work out but I know friends who have! Ny friend Chris went to a wedding like this a year ago. That marriage didn't even last a year and he knew it would happen! It amazes me people go through with a marriage when it is so obvious it won't work! People are so crazy!

Since I am not one of the couples, he/she should have enough reasons to marry with the one who I don't like. I can't judge it by myself. As long as he/she loves her/him, that's OK. Perhaps this marriage can last, who knows? All I can do is to attend to the wedding and be happy for them and wish them happy marriage. I love China

Hi Sarah, Like you, I would be there in support of the person I cared about. I may not think that the marriage was a good match but I would be hoping and praying that I was wrong. I'd wish them the best.

The wedding ceremony isn't just about the bride and groom, it is about the parents as well! A supportive friend of the family would go. Lets put it this way, if no one shows up it will still occur.

As for me, i will go.For the people i love.Give him/her my wishes. Sometimes the person we hate maybe is not a bad man.Since the hate and the love are going to married,i will try to forgive the hate one.But maybe not like him/her as the loved one.

Well, I am currently studying to become a wedding planner, so I would go to the wedding for two reasons. a) Because I love the person, and not attending the wedding is not going to change anything. b) To take notes! If I didn't already plan the wedding, I'd take notes on how tense situations can be dealt with at weddings for the sake of the families.

I probably would go...why not? At least there would be some support there for him/her....

This is a tricky question. I can't ignore my loved one and at the same time, will not feel comfortable in a marriage of a hated one. I think, I would decide it at the moment only and I can't have a clear idea now. By the way, what is the difference between a marriage and a wedding?

Hi Sarah I wish I was healthier and fit to attend the weddings... In India, these ceremonies are believed to be once in a lifetime activities and this makes it more important to attend such occasions. Well, in the case you mention, if it is already late, I think I would have joined the party and wished the newly wed for the new life that they are starting. However, if there was time and I could, I would definitely give it a shot - tell the loved one that the other person involved is having this flaw or I have my feelings against him/her. But that would be just for once and then it is all upto them to decide. Regards, theSids.

Yes. I think i would be going to support the one i care for. Somehow i wish their wedding would be a smooth one and do hope that my guess is wrong and they would have a wonderful lifetime together as couple.

Wedding , uhm i will go if the bride or groom is my relatives. Other's wedding , uhm , i think i don't want to go . Because, if i go to a wedding , even other or my relative , i can't eat much . Wedding food is not delicious, so i wouldn't eat much , or i will eat at home first , then eat something at wedding

I will surely go to the wedding if given the chance and the invitations. Even if I hate the person he/she is marrying, I will always be there to support him/her physically and emotionally by being present in one of the important day of his/her life.

If the situation of the wedding is for your relative I will go to the wedding, not for food, but to support and show your affection to them even your feeling will hurt becasue of the person you hated most. Meaning I will set aside my ego and sacrifice myself, who knows on that event you learn to forgive the person you hated most.. right? But do I need an invitation before I will go there? Hmmm I think you can receive invitation because your relative or not necessary the invitation. If not relative, I think not coming to the wedding because they call you gatecrusher... see you around

I would still go to the wedding,it would seem petty if you don't.Guess you would have to grin and bear it.

I'll definitely will. Not because of them, but because of the food. I really love to eat so I am going to take that opportunity. I'll just support them and hope that it will work out well. Let them learn their mistakes. It's hard to talk to people in love right? We can share our views, but they'll only listen. They take that advice when the mistake happen. Reality bites.