Choosing with the one who loves you or the one you love?

Love to be completely say it's love is when it is being reciprocated. Selfishly, i would choose the one who loves me more, but you can never tell when your heart beats with the one you're not sure he loves you more. So better let the feelings choose.

In my opinion, you really need to find out first if the guy you're in love with is having the same or even more amount to love that you have toward him. But if you find out later that he's not that into you, then let it go and wait for the one who loves you more.

Both or nothing at all.

I have read all of the previous responses to this discussion and I have to disagree. Some people say you try to love the person who loves you more, others say you should hold out for the one you love. I look at these two options as exactly the same. If I am with a guy who loves me more then I love him than he is with a woman who doesn't love him back. If I wait on the guy to love me back then that guy is with a girl who loves him more. Each option has the same consequences because someone is always going to get hurt. I say that love should grow. It is possible for a relationship to go through patches where feelings are adversely affected by the present situation. However, in a strong and healthy relationship the love that is shared becomes the common bond that holds a couple together through the tough times and adds real meaning to the good times. I would never stick around waiting for a man to love me back and I wouldn't stay with a man that loves me unless I knew I felt the same way. Right now I am head over heals for my guy and we are on the same page. We have our rough moments (last night was one of them) but we love each other so much that there is never a doubt about our desire to be together.

sometimes it becomes much confusing type... but try to love the one who loves u , y becoz who know she's the best for u ,

it takes

For me both cases doesn't good unless its a give and take one. I cannot really stay with the one I love if he cant love me back and i can never be with someone i dont have any feelings for. To love and be loved, for me , is non-negotiable. Few get lucky to have this , i hope when u get lucky someday to have this, that u will really fight for it. You don't have to be in relationship, if you cannot attain that kind of reciprocating love.You better be single and wait for the right time.

True love is unconditional. If you love somebody, you must be ready for a committment. True love must be mutual and is not base on mere feelings. It's just right to know him more before you enter into a relationship with him. Don't be in a rush so that you can have more time to know him better. It will be best if you ask GOD for guidance. For sure you'll never go wrong.

you shouldnt choose. you should wait more time and go out with that guy that loves you and see if you fall or not. if you dont fall then dont be with him. and wait for the guy that you fall for. is needed that you and the boy love each other. if is only you loving you, you shouldnt be with him. and if is only you loving, also. love is two people loving each other. so if you cant love this guy be honest with him and be only friends. the right guy will appear^^ and if you fall in love for him then go ahead and be happy^^ but if dont love dont be with him just cause he loves you :( thats not good.

My aunt used to tell me, I should be with the one who loves me more than I love him. she said it's easier to fall in love with all the goodness and caring acts of that person, than making someone love you. Each day, you'll be able to discover more beautiful things and feel more good about yourself being with the one who appreciates you and love you for who you are. That way is far more better than trying to be the person that will suit the taste of the person you adore.

i think that right mate. chose one who loves you. he can do a lot of thing for you because he love you a lot. i will chose the one who love me. some opion!!