She loves me... Should i continue?

Wow, she doesn't know you enough to tell you that she loves you. I think that it's immature on her part. She only needs your companion and mental support. Are you engaged to be married to someone else?

Hi brother.. Sorry to suggest you this but I want to do this for my brother's good life.. I feel its not fair enough to continue this relationship because once you get attached to her and cant leave with out her and all of a sudden she will go away then what will you do? And it will be difficult for you to forget all this and get married to some other and you cant avoid thinking of this girl even after marraige which spoils your life so be careful about it.. when she dont have intension of getting married to you but just wants a companion then be her good friend and never ever fall in love with such girl..Hope my words dont hurt you brother..

I think that is not love, my friend. As far as I know that is only a kind attraction which not shown love but lust or a mean of companionship because the girl is lonely. You need to think twice if you have the feelings that you you the lady. If there is no obstacle and you feel that you love her. Okay, go on my friend love that girl with all your heart

Hiya shibs, Oh yes be very careful not to get hurt by this Lady. You can be her shoulder to cry on for a while but what about after. When she gets married what happens to you? Me too for a second I thought you had met that Lady we have heard mentioned. This Lady with all due respect should consider your feelings because no one is made of steel. It´s not my business I know but I would draw the line as up to where you can help her and how. Draw a line and don´t go past it if you can help it. Because you could be the one left to pick up the broken pieces after and that is not fair. You deserve to meet that Lady you are looking for don´t get too tangled up with this one at the very least be very cautious. Good luck Shibs. Take care now.

Hello Shiby. here we go again. What is it that you have that women can't leave you alone? I think i will sen you to a monastery for 2 years. I mean really. They look at you and fall in love. Let me hear if they have a open space in Tibet, okay. Pack your towel. TATA.

well i have had something Simula happen to me. but its not love its lust and lust can be a very bad thing if it is lead on. so i say stop it or make it clear as to what is going on before some thing bad happens.

Well.. I don't think it's very good idea if you are going to keep in touch with her if you already know that you are not going to marry her in future. I have seen a case like this when one of my friend used to teach a girl of class 8th when he was in graduation with her. she proposed him but he didn't accept... She tried very hard and once she tried to kill herself... but nobody was sure ...as he was not in contact with any one else because her parents starting scholding him from start... After 3-4 month we sujjest him to talk with her nicely and ask what she want really ...and she asked him same... like she need mental support for now ...and in future he can marry any body else... But when he got married after getting job with a very nice girl of our circle only .... she ruined his married life ...at first by blackmailing ...and then by lieing to fictional story to his wife ...as she was having some things also ... which was enough to prove her story ...\ So ...now its upto you ...to decide what you want to do ...as it may be in future you will start loving a girl....and what you will do ...if this girl comes in the way ? Thanks ...

HI Shibham! Now, who is this girl? You are into a steady thing with another arranged marriage fiance isn't it?

She is indeed a smart lady. She knows how to play her game well. This is a similar story that happened to my brother with an office mate. She is his wife now. She initially approached my brother because her fiancee wanted to break off the engagement simply because she is highly educated and the man feel inferior. She loved him so much and was really broken hearted of being rejected. She diverted her attention to my brother for emotional support. Not long after that my brother fell in love with her and married her instead. Women knows how to capture a man's heart even when you have no love feelings towards her, Anywhere time will tell where it leads you to.

I think , this is not suitable for our culture.. If u are seeing a girl, then u should marry her.. If u see this girl and marry another girl, then this is a serious blunder u would be doing to the girl whom u are gonna marry. so, bid a Farewell to these type of girls and look for a nice and complete girl who would come throughout your life !!!! Farewell !!!!!

She sounds like she has some issues! I would run now while you still have a chance. First she is extremely foward to call you and tell you she loves you when you only had a passing meeting before. You know how I got my boyfriend to go out with me? We talked for six months straight at school before I told him I wanted to hang out with him outside of school. Hanging out turned into a date... we didn't say we loved each-other until 3 months into dating and I think even that is a little soon. Second, I don't she should say that she loves you when neither of you are interested in anything serious. You obviously would like to marry someday, that's an option for you, sounds like she would like to marry someday too. If neither of you are looking to marry each-other then you shouldn't tell each-other you love each-other. It would be different if you wanted a committed relationship but didn't believe in marriage period. And lastly if she out and out cried because you turned her down on a first date... imagine how she is going to be when it's time for you to part ways later! I'm picturing a psycho here. Be careful!

If you're not interested with that woman, surely, you wouldn't bother. I think she's in a state from where she wants to explore something and she finds you as an object for that exploration. I wish you could take things seriously or else you'll find yourself regretful just because you wasted your precious time for someone... unknown.

You know what, she does not LOVE you. She just needs SOMEONE. and she chose you for unknown reasons. companionship is not a definite reason why you love a person. There is something deep about it. It is not a mere attraction but it comes from the soul. You see, she may be mending a broken heart and she is using you as

Tell her how u feel about her, but in a very polite and gentle way, she respect you, so dont let her get disapointed.

Excuse me i dont understand why the two of you can not be together???

As I usually tell people in such predicaments- Go with your gutt! Do what you feel! You only live once! Life is a cabaret, my friend. Does she give you butterflies? Does she make you happy when you two are together? Can you meet her and think about life without her? Think about it!

My experience has taught me that when one person wants just friendship and the other wants more it rarely works out without someone getting hurt! If you know you definitely cannot reciprocate how this girl feels about you I think you should stop seeing her because she will only get hopeful that you will give her more than friendship. It is difficult, I know but I think better to hurt her now than lead her to believe there will be more.

oh!!! so you met her.... Then how was her ??? to be a companion??? a future girlfriend of yours??/ a friend??? or what is she as a person? Asked yourself with these questions..If you think she scored more than negatives then give it a try BUT be careful, extra careful...

Hello there. Some feelings are not true. And some feelings can mistaken to love. Knowing that she loves you doesn't require you to love her back. Be clear to your self first. Where does she stand to you? KNow how you really feel about her. Yes, you are fascinated and so overwhelemed with the fact that a "beautiful" girl was proposing to you. Don't get yourself confused. If you can manage being with her like that, it's okay. As long as you know you can handle her. Good Luck! ^_^

If you married then dont go ahead and say this girl please understood i am already married for one girl dont left your wife. It is not love only attraction from your style. If she knows you are married and do this type of activity then she is mad. But you can say both are the friends and give the moral support to her. Because now a days the girl will immediately take a action and try to die so help her upto marriage.