If you have the chance, will you delete your memory?
By bokal2703
@bokal2703 (802)
Philippines
November 8, 2010 12:33pm CST
This is not a movie review, but i think the movie Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is quite interesting in the sense that most of us can relate in such a way that there are times when we wish we can just put away the things that we want to forget, people we wish we never met, events we hoped never happened, put it all in a box and burn it...however, that is not how life operates...The movie starred Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet, a couple who underwent a sort of deleting each other's presence in their memory through a certain process...I won't go further as to why they want to do that...
For those of you who are interested, here’s a pseudo-scientific explanation of how the memory erasing system works. Suppose you have painful memories with some person that you want to erase. You go to the scientist’s lab with all the things you have that are associated with that person: letters, photos, gifts etc. Then you are made to wear a helmet-like sensory device that tracks your brain activity. The technician holds each of the items in front of you, and you are to think about the memory you have with that item. This way, the brain areas associated with those memories are identified. Once they have finished making a ‘memory map’ of your brain, you are put to sleep (with the helmet on your head) and the technicians use a software to systematically erase those memories from your brain, just like how you delete files from your computer. Next morning when you wake up, you are a new person, with no painful, disgraceful, or horrifying memories related to that specific person or event.
Now, my question: IF YOU HAVE THE CHANCE TO UNDERGO SUCH PROCEDURE WITHOUT HAVING ANY HEALTH HAZARD, WILL YOU GO FOR IT?
Personally, I am tempted to say, yes, I want to erase some parts of my life in my memory, but I think, its wiser not to do that, 'coz if I do, I'll just live in a more confused world after it, 'coz those persons or events that I will erase, will just bother me, making me remember who they are...besides, a spotless mind, maybe spotless for a time, but as we continue to breathe and seize each day, we also encounter things that will be imprinted in that spotless mind, and then, what, if its hurts again, I'll go on deleting them? so my life will just be like a computer? reformat, and reformat? argh..virus is everywhere...so I guess instead of that deletion process, why not use an anti-virus? lol...seriously, I mean, we can't just put everything into a box and burn it pretend that it didnt happen, 'coz life is a cycle...life is life...i'll stop here before I completely lose making sense..and before I change my mind about that process.. lol
6 responses
@somedontknow (1)
• Ireland
27 Dec 10
Yes, i would delete my memory.... i know life is a cycle but people control their own life and if deleting a memory helps them, then why not? One day.... i'll delete my memory, delete the people i know, people i knew, people i thought i knew and people who i loved....
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
8 Nov 10
No, I would never delete my memory. I think we learn from our mistakes and past experiences! So if we just delete memories, we don't learn anything from them. Our memories make us who we are! If we delete them, then we aren't really ourselves!
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
For a moment there, I contemplated of saying YES. What I had been through and still going through isn't a joke. It takes a lot of courage on my part to hold on to my sanity...I'd like to delete that part where I thought I invited evil to come into my life.Oh, I don't wanna remember that day when I kissed and welcomed the devil's game into my life...Yes, I am suffering because of my husband's past that's been haunting me and him....
But, I asked myself if I really wanted to forget. I realized, I don't. Forgetting a piece or some pieces of my memory will make me incomplete. Those bitter memories reminded me that I am human capable of feeling everything, forgetting, forgiving and above all capable of loving. If I don't remember, I will not remember that I have loved with all my heart, my mind and soul.
Corny as it may sound but it is true.I'd rather remember everything,including painful memories than to live my life not knowing why I am so happy and content with my life.
Life is better experienced when you also have those bits of pieces of pains, too.It makes life sweeter.:)
@lupin4fujico (164)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
the thing is, if you like what you are now, then you should leave all things as they originally were. because if those experiences made you stronger, take it as a challenge that make you a better person now.
world is created with such "opposites". if there're happiness, there would be sadness, etc. googd looking persons wouldn't be like that if there were no ugly persons. they wouldn't be ranked.
but i wonder...aliens are not the opposite of man, so do they exist?
maybe yes, because maybe they were created at the same pace as humans....LOL ^__^