It's 5:22 a.m. And Something Weird Happened
By pyewacket
@pyewacket (43903)
United States
November 9, 2010 4:52am CST
Now anyone who knows me well, knows I'm a night owl...so it's not unusual for me to be still awake at 5:22 a.m. I was watching TV when all of a sudden the doorbell rang and a knocking sound..and I'm going WTF? At this hour?
NO!!!!!! I didn't respond or open my door but stood behind my locked door to listen. A male voice was talking...perhaps in his cell phone? He was saying that his mother had a stoke and needed medication. He cited the apt number as being the one over me. He kept on talking that he needed to get medication for his mother and needed to borrow money.
Fact one: There are NO pharmacies open 24 hours a day near me.
Fact two: If he had rang the bell of the people next door to me he wouldn't have been speaking English but Spanish, since the family over me is Spanish speaking and so is the woman's son (and daughter) and SO are the people living next door to me--so wouldn't he be speaking Spanish to them if it was indeed the son
Fact Three: The woman's son over me moved out long time ago
Fact Four: If the mother just had a stroke not long ago...wouldn't she still be in rehab? It takes awhile for a person to recover from a stroke
I would hate to think maybe this "story" this male voice I heard was true and it was indeed the son...but the people over me...the mother, daughter and son are quiet people and not known to ask for anything not even in emergencies. Here in the Big Apple of NYC one hears of all kinds of stories of con men with "stories" and once a person opens their door forces themselves in and well, you can imagine...rob, rape, kill.
What would you have done? Was I right in not answering my door (yeah I know I do)--have you had an experience like this?
And no-I wasn't afraid..actually ticked off that some azzwad dared to think me a victim and sucker--hey I'm one that survived a mugging by kicking the daylights out of my mugger
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57 responses
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Ha! I had two strokes! We do not need emergency medication, we need physical therapy! So you were so right!
Here in Minnesota (land of nice) that kind of crap happens too. I had someone come to my door to sell me a security system. I told him we have one and he wanted to know what kind! Hahahaha! I can't tell you that! We actually have three of them. I count neighbors as one. I count 3 active boys coming and going all day as two! It's none of their business and I'm not going to tip the guy off!
When mom was living she got a phone call from a guy with broken English. "Give me all your information and we can protect you from identity theft". Thank God she called me first before giving him any information!
I had a guy call me who is "the security system provider in my area". "Do you still live at ____ MN Dr?" To which I said "I'm not going to give you any information, we're all set up." He made himself sound like hes a bill collector or cop.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
It was smart of you not to give that info out...had you done that, then the person would have known what kind of security system you used so he could "override" it to break in and rob you
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
scary indeed! It's right that you didn't open your door at that time because I don't think people who are in need would randomly knock on the doors of people they don't know. That would take a lot of courage or thick skin to do that!
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Also is the fact that the people over me have never rung my bell in all the years they've lived here
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
10 Nov 10
I mentioned this to others in my response back...I had to go out today, and when I came back I rang the super's bell to find out if anyone rang their bell. One thing the guy was mentioning was how he rang the super's bell. So when I asked the super, he said no, no one rang his bell...and he and his family are early risers and would have been awake at that time...curiouser and curiouser
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
9 Nov 10
You were right to not answer that door, but I would have called the police, because if his mother did need help, then they can help a lot quicker. Or if it was a set up, then the guy would have gotten busted, taking another creep off the street..(Yeah, I know it'd only be temporary.)
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
I suppose I could have called the cops, but by the time they would have gotten here the person would have vanished...our police aren't exactly speedy
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
9 Nov 10
True, but at least you'd have someone on the other end of the phone if the guy decided to do something stupid, like break your door down...
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
9 Nov 10
I meant that if a dispatcher knew the seriousness, that help would get there sooner..
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@Anathulia (50)
• Trinidad And Tobago
9 Nov 10
I wouldn't have opened the door. Stuff like that has happened to me as well. Sometimes after the incident I wonder whether the person was telling the truth or not, or if I had done the right thing. The doubt eats me up inside for the rest of the day. I probably would have slipped some money under the door for him. You never know if what he was saying could be true.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Thing is the people have lived over me for years and years and have never rung my bell for anything--so makes it even weirder to me
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
9 Nov 10
I wouldn't have opened the door either....too dangerous. In fact if I see someone outside knocking and I don't recognize them I don't answer the door....I am not someone who thinks the worst of anyone but seriously there are too many crazies out there to expose yourself to if you aren't careful.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
11 Nov 10
Yes unfortunately there are a lot of "crazies" out in the world with the intent of harming someone
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
9 Nov 10
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!! There are some really big holes in his story, and one huge one and that is, What the F happened to dialing 911? If the family member supposedly had a stroke, it would have been the first thing that any sensible person would have done. Plus, there aren't too many medications that they put stroke patients on, one big one is blood thinners and aspirin. So, besides the fact that it is pretty lame that she would be out of medication at that hour, unless she had overdosed which would rate a call to 911. Then too, wouldn't the guy go to family friends to borrow money rather than knock on doors at that hour? And, like you stated, there are no 24 hour pharmacies in your area.
People who have had a stroke would still be in rehab, if not in rehab they would be in the hospital. They don't let people who have had a stroke go home and shift for themselves...unless they are a total nasty crabby horrible old witch like my neighbor lady. Then the hospitals are happy to get rid of them! Of course she and her husband are the kind that won't ever die because God is afraid of them and the Devil doesn't want them. They're the ones who sued me... Before you guys chew me out, you need to meet the pair. Their EXdaughter in law came down to help them out after the husband had cancer surgery that removed part of his stomach and small intestines...and not only did they have nothing good to say about the ex daughter in law, but they also made her life a living hell. If she hadn't of come down the couple would have been put in a home by the county. It isn't old age for this pair either, they have been this way ALL THEIR FRIGGIN LIVES!!!! They will sue you at the drop of a hat (they have a lifetime record of over 100 law suits) and will cut your throat for a buck.
Anyhow, the idiot was HOPING you would be a sucker but fortunately you are one smart person...that's why I admire you so much. I was assaulted when I first got to Thailand...by an American GI no less. He was drunk and came out of the bushes at me with the obvious intentions of rape. I was wearing a pair of pointy toed western boots, and I planted a good hard kick between his legs. It was so liberating that I kicked him three or four more times for good measure. We learned later that they found him in the bushes that morning and he spent three weeks in the hospital waiting for his "parts" to stop swelling. We knew some of the MP's and they had a really great laugh as the guy was well known for doing that kind of thing to women. As women we are taught that we have to be "lady like", and that you don't violate a guy's "package". But when it's them or us, all rules are off.
Thankfully, you are a fast thinking person and that you know NOT to open doors that late at night-or early in the morning. He also could have been casing your apartment to see if anyone lives there and if you were home. I would have reported the incident to the police since he could also be using this to potentially harm other people either to rob them or do other things.
Great job Pye!
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@shaggin (72288)
• United States
10 Nov 10
Good for you that you survived a mugging. That would be scary. I would be scared to wake up and hear this going on outside my door at that time of the morning. I am very glad that you were smart enough not to answer the door! Even if it was the son he shouldnt be asking neighbors for money nor should he be ringing their bell at that time.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
12 Nov 10
That's why I don't think it could have been the son...just doesn't sound like something he would do
@margerydaw14 (735)
•
10 Nov 10
you did well not to answer the door, you knew enough details of your neighbours not to open your door, but it doesnt bear thinking about , what may have happened. I had quite a scary visit one sunny saturday afternoon. ~Strange but true. This particular afternoon I was home alone when the door bell rang and I answered the door to 3 boys in their late teens. They asked me directions to a street that was a similiar name to the street I was living in. Then one said "is colin in?" which was weird as thats my sons name. I exclaimed at this and they looked uncomfortable and went. But in the opposite direction. About an hour later i had a call from my son. He was very upset, he had been refereeing a football match and when he got back to his car, it had been broken into, his prized leather jacket and dvds had been stolen plus his front door keys. You can imagine how I felt. Those 3 lads obviously had the keys and had knocked first before letting themselves in. My blood ran cold, I normally went out every saturday afternoon and it was the first time in months i had stayed in. We are insured but my biggest fear was that my 5 cats and my 2 dogs could have been attacked by these morons!!! That really frightened me more than the thought of being burgled. The locks were changed straight away, even the police said we had a lucky escape.
By the way if anyone was to knock on my door after nine oclock at night, I won't open the door( I'm a nightbird too, normally go to bed well after midnight) I will look out of the window but open the door? not a chance!
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
15 Nov 10
Kind of strange that particular day you decided to stay home rather than go out...think an inner voice or gut feeling told you not too?
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@margerydaw14 (735)
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19 Nov 10
That is the strange part,At the time I was a local councillor and as i worked full time, i would spend my weekends going round my 'patch' keeping an eye on things and speaking to my constituents. It was very unusual for me to stay in.... so yes either one of those things. It was a pleasant day too, ideal for walking around. Just proves, always listen to that inner voice
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
10 Nov 10
I had something like this happen about 20 years ago. I had just moved to a new city and my wife and I were settling down and getting ready for bed. Just then a girl knocked loudly on our door and claimed that a guy was chasing her. I looked through the peep hole but she didn't ever face us so I couldn't see if she was scared or lying. I felt bad but my gut told me to not open the door. She knocked again (still facing away so you couldn't see her face) and exclaimed that she needed to use the phone. This was before cell phones were popular and in my silence my wife spoke up and said, "We don't have a phone." The next moment the girl left and ran around our apt to where the back door was, I ran through the kitchen to see if she would try to get in back there but there was no one to be seen. It still sticks with me today.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
15 Nov 10
I've heard stories of how con men (or women) use children as a decoy of sorts. Some child rings the bell and makes up a story. Most people wouldn't think twice about a child being "harmful"--but then once a person opens the door an adult forces themselves inside--good you were careful not to open the door
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
9 Nov 10
I'm glad u didn't answer your door. I wouldn't have either unless i had known for sure who was there. I live in a small town & fortunately we don't have alot of crime but if someone knocked on my door at that hour i would be very leary especially if it was at my front door because everyone i know comes to my carport door. STAY SAFE.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
11 Nov 10
Yes I never open my door no matter what time of day or night it is, unless I know for sure I'm expecting a delivery or a friend is coming by to visit
@RachelleNH (1396)
• United States
10 Nov 10
Wow, I would have called the cops straight away...but stalled him and told him to hold on a few minutes-what if he hits up someone else?
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
12 Nov 10
That kind of would have backfired, since he would have been able to hear me talking to the cops...he would have gone away at that point
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@irishmist (3814)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Wow what a crazy thing to happen to you. i don't blame you for not answering the door, especially at that hour. I would have called the police if that happened to me.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
I generally won't open the door anyway unless I know for a fact that a package is being delivered to me or I'm expecting someone. I've had my bell rung before at weird hours...usually drunks mistaking my apt building for theirs--right next door is an apt building a carbon copy of mine and identical
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@nova1945 (1612)
• United States
9 Nov 10
You absolutely did the right thing in not opening the door. I am the type of person who always trys to help a person in need, but I would have told him that I could not open it because my pit bull was too dangerous to strangers (don't have one of course..just guard cats) but I was calling 911 for him. Probably would never hear another peep from his side of the door.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
LOL--I have an attack cat too
If his story was true, he could have called 911 himself, right?
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Something very similar happened to me once. A man knocked on the door around 2:30 a.m. and said he needed to use our telephone because his car broke down and he needed to call a friend to pick him up. He said he knew the people two houses up from us.
I thought that was so blatantly obvious that I almost laughed. My husband asked him (through the door) what our neighbors names were. He gave us some made-up names, probably hoping we didn't really know our neighbors. Unfortunately for him, we did.
My husband told him to leave. He refused, citing that he really needed to use the phone. We had three dogs at the time, one of them rather large, who were making quite a racket this whole time. I was really surprised that the guy didn't just leave when he heard the dogs but I guess he was even more stupid than I thought.
When the guy just wouldn't leave, my husband said, "If you're not off our property in five seconds, I'm letting these dogs out." The guy took off!
So, yeah, this is something you have to watch out for. If you feel that the person is telling the truth, tell them you'll phone the police for them (through the door, of course). If they take off running, which is what most of these idiots will do, you'll know they were up to no good.
Actually, it would be even better to tell him that you're calling the police right now, so they think that you are already in touch with the police. Of course, you may have to pretend you're speaking to the police but beating this guy to his own game may just save your life.
You did right in not opening your door.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
I wouldn't have opened the door anyway and especially at that time. I rarely do open the door unless I know for a fact that I'm expecting a delivery of a package or if I'm expecting a friend to drop by. Also in all the years that the people have lived over me they've NEVER rang my bell, so that makes it weirder I think
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
9 Nov 10
You were right not to answer the door. it was your neighbor son couldn't they have called you? Reading the other responses, I agree with the person that said you should have called the police. If she really did need help, they could have helped her, and if it was a scam they could arrest the guy.
Was he saying she had a stroke then or was it awhile ago, that she would still be in rehab. If awhile ago, why would she suddenly need medication at that time of the morning? If she was still in rehab they probably would have given her whatever she needed. It probably was a scam!
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Well like I said I didn't open the door nor say anything...I was just listening to what this guy was saying...I gather that this "story" was that the mother supposedly had had the stroke sometime ago. Anyway if it WERE true, they could have called the 911 for an ambulance themselves, right?
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@unique16 (1531)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Hello pyewaket,
You were correct not opening that door. He probably wanted to rob you and or worse rape you! I would called the police and have them come out to check the hallway for you and see there other complaints about this person knocking on the door.
You probably prevented yourself from getting hurt. You correct listening to your instestincs and not going to the door and staying very quite in your apartment.
You use your head remembering who was were and what.
That was a very scary time for you.
Thanks for the share.
Sincerley Unique16
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
LOL--I would never open my door at that hour to begin with...heck lots of times I don't answer the door at anytime day or night unless I'm expecting someone visiting me or a delivery of a package
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@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
hello pyewacket!
you were right in not opening your door. nowadays, people are being conned to every imaginable stories just so they could do their bad deeds. It's a sad fact though that people like them exist. They're the ones who makes us lose our trust in other people who really are in dire need of our help. Sometimes, we turn away those who are in dire need of our help because most of the times, these conmen let us believe otherwise.
it pays to be safety-conscious than to be sorry later. anyway, we can be rationalize events like you did, mulling over why that person was speaking in English when he should be speaking in Spanish and so on. It pays to be always alert and always have presence of mind, when it comes to situation like this.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Another curious thing is this. Today I had to go out to do some grocery shopping. I had a lot of heavy things, and when I came back I rang the super's bell to help me up with my groceries (I live on the second floor and a walkup on stairs)---so I asked him if anyone rang his bell around the same time, since the person talking out in front of my door mentioned he rang the super's bell and the super said no. The super's family btw are early risers, so they would have been awake
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