Online relationship.. going all the way
By sammy14
@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
November 9, 2010 9:43pm CST
All of us here in mylot has in one way or another experienced having been loved or has had an online relatioship while others are still engaged in such.. My question is.. how much are you willing to go in this kind of relationship... Can you go all the way to satisfy your lover or so that you can complete your online love relationship... Is this really necessary in this kind of relationship... What are the pitfalls in this kind of relationship..
On the other hand how do you find this kind of relationship.. do you find this more exciting than when you physically you have contact and date physically... How can you describe the intensity of an online relationship with that of a physical relationship.. a normal one..
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8 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Nov 10
For me physically would be the best option as personally I do not think I can deal with an online relationship, one that I could not share and feel my emotions with. However many are doing it and speak of it working for them. Bless them.
But I am the type of person that if I have an issue I really need the person there physically to support me and not just online and or the telephone.
But again others say it works for them.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Nov 10
Thanks for my avatar comment. Too late for me to try any form of dating as I live with my boyfriend for 5 happy years.
But have fun and be very careful..
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Online relationship really is very possible these days. But it does not work for me. My first perhaps was that the guy is in Sydney Australia. He wanted us to meet in Malaysia where he had a business meeting then. Yet, I cannot travel because of my studies. After a year or so, I cannot take the risk of working the relationship out because it seems the time won't give us the opportunity. Until, I found my boyfriend and I had to break up with my online bf. Then, another guy who is in the U.S. came next, but am already engaged then. He is actually willing to come and meet me, but I had to decline because am no longer available.
Maybe to some, it works out and they can take that risk to go all the way. I cannot bear that situation. I want us to meet in person first before we plan to move to the next level.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
11 Nov 10
I don't know that I could have an online relationship with someone that is real serious. People can tell you anything online.
@pogi253 (1596)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Every relationships need to be worked at so that they will last and are pleased. Online relationships need to be sustained so that they do not shrivel and die too.
The most important thing when you are get a hold into an online relationships is to ask yourself if this other person really is for you. If they are dedicated on you but you are not very dedicated on them then do not bother, it will eventually sizzle out anyway and that might as well be sooner quite than later. But if both of you honestly believe you know each other well enough and have enough in common to make it value the bother then go for it. Preferably you are both busy people who both only have a little time, that way you can get suck up in work or your family and friends and have a filled life as well as your online relationship. Problems crop up when one is busy but the other is at home alone all day wiggling their thumbs and getting lonely and bored, then they want more time and attention from the busier one.
@Robincon (12)
• China
11 Nov 10
I think online relationship in nowadays is very important, But my firt experience of making friends online is not very nice. One day I chat in a online chat room, I find a girl elegant through her talk, and I add her to my QQ, then we often talk to each other online. day by day we think we are very suitable for each other, then one day she decided to see me in realistic world. When she saw me, she said I was not handsome, and then never to talk to me even online
@thebassdude (342)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Although my wife and I were introduced by a common friend, our relationship kinda developed online via chat. We would chat til the late hours... that's how we started to know more about each other. But I think our relationship blossomed into something deeper when we started going out and being with each other. :)
I think having a relationship online is ok, especially with better means of communication available on the net nowadays like skype, yahoo messenger, etc. But it's also important to get to know a person more by going out on dates. You actually learn a lot about a person by just observing how he/she acts on your date. :)
@meesaradee (28)
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10 Nov 10
I've been in an online relationship for 15 months,she's Filipino ,I was getting too serious and i love her so much,I have planing to go to Philippines on December this year.