Do guys mind dating or having relationship with an older woman?
By gerry101
@gerry101 (229)
Philippines
November 10, 2010 3:11am CST
Hey guys this question is for you. Do you guys here at my lot ever dated a woman older or have ever a relationship with an older woman? What are the advantages and disadvantages in your experience with dating or having a relationship with an older woman?
2 responses
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
I don't mind at all, as long as we get along with each other well.
Some people think and say that most of the women get more mature earlier than men, but women when in love would be at times silly and immature. But let's face it, as men, we can't fully fathom a woman's behavior. So for me, it doesn't matter as long as we get along with each other well, and we have mutual feelings for each other.
Advantage - maybe for older woman, you would have a mature kind of relationship. You could enjoy having a counselor and adviser anytime. You would have a mature point of view in life by sharing a mature individuals perspective.
Disadvantage - you might not be able to cope up with generation gaps. You might not be ready to handle a more mature kind of relationship and there's a possibility of generation shock. Because if you're not of the same age (specially when you have more than 5 years gap) you might really have some generation gaps that's so hard to adjust to.
Bottom line - it's all up to you. And a mature love would be more on choices and decisions and not much on feelings and emotions. LOVE and RELATIONSHIP is mainly a choice!
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 10
I've been intimately associated with women much older than me. Our age gap closed to within 10 years. And I enjoy it, because he gave me the material and immaterial which I'd never get as long as I relate with women who younger than me. Older Women, more fun if invited to talk and to share problems