how do you convince yourself that god has someone destined for you?

God has plans for all of us. Due to free will we are able to choose our own fate or destiny. Although he might have someone reserved just for us, we should just not wait for that person but make our own destiny. God might serve as our guide but we make our decisions.

all of us have our destiny, a partner who has been made for us. but, not many people can united with their destiny. you can see so many cheating happen in a marriage. so many people get divorce, fighting each other, and even do a physical abuse to the partner. can you say that they were made for each other? can you say that the partner is their destiny? my answer is NO. when you really love someone, when you met your destiny, you will not harm your partner, you will not hurt your partner, because marriage is about a couple fulfill each other. not fighting and hurt each other. so, we dont have any idea who is our destiny, infact, so many people married someone who is not their destiny

I would love to think that the right person for me was out there somewhere. But the reality sets in that convinces me that I will probably never get to experience another "true love" in my life time.. sigh...

I used to believe in fate and believe god has chosen my life partner.After end several relationships i start have some doubt.Maybe we need experience some unsuccessful relationships to mellow ourselves till encounter the right person.Sometimes waiting is useless,you must take action if you like someone.If you always wondering Whether she is the right person then you will lose lots chance. happy mylotting^-^

Well, it is ok to keep on waiting for someone destine for you. It will come unexpectedly.

I believe that God holds my future. And whether that future includes a right love for me is something that I trust entirely to Him. So, I don't really know if there is someone. I just know that He will give what's best for me.