Are you for or against campus love?
By JimmySun
@jimmysun (401)
China
November 10, 2010 7:24am CST
For young people, it's very common to fall in love in college. After yrs of hard work, we finally reach the university of our dream.We dont have so tight a schedule as in high school,which means more spare time waiting for us.
I guess you have heard that love is an necessary part of college life.However, not everyone has the time and enrgy for it...so what is your opinion? and why?
6 responses
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
6 Dec 10
I dated throughout college and IT helped the experience it helped me understand making sacrifices and doing what needs to be done for me, for him and for the good of the relationship. I wouldn't say its a necessary part of college, but I wouldn't rule it out in college. In high school I did because I wanted to focus on my studies and get good grades.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
6 Dec 10
I too had a reationship in college that lasted all four years. Sometimes I wish I dated other men while in college to understand my needs when it comes to a relationship other times I know it helped me see what I deserve.
@Jacobus1919 (1683)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Campus love is normal. Everyone or almost everyone experiences this. So, there is nothing wrong with it.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
11 Nov 10
I'm not inherently "for" or "against" love no matter where you find it. I would not by any means say that "love is a necessary part of college" or even necessary at all. Everyone has different values and goals, for some people that doesn't include relationships, for some people they're whole life hinges on finding "the one".
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 10
hmmm, i'm not against campus love. infact, i already have relationship in senior high school. and i dont have problems with my grade. i think campus love is fine. but it is not happen to me. i have a tight schedule for being a pharmacist and lawyer, so i dont have time to play and have love relationship near me. well, i have boyfriend at that time, but it is long distance relation ship. so the relation didnt bother me.
@marifel86 (111)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
I'm not for or against campus love.and i don't think that love/being in a relationship in college is really necessary. It really depends on the priority of the person and being able to weigh things out.I mean a person can't serve 2 masters at the same time,love and studies.But if you have both,one's priority should be clear so as not to distort one's goal.
@ordinarylady13 (87)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Well, in my campus, we have a pretty tight schedule just like in high school. But some of us here manage to have our love lives even within these busy schedule. So in my opinion, it depends on everyone's decision.
