compatibility
factors that will affect your relationship
things you look for in a future relationship
what are the factors that you consider for your COMPATIBLITY?
By aaronfyzeon
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
Philippines
November 10, 2010 12:13pm CST
Are you looking for someone who is just right for you, but not sure where or how to find him or her? Many people say opposites attract. Maybe that is true, or maybe that is just what we are told as a way of explaining the "mystery" of relationships.
Being right for each other is more about having a "fit" of your personality, habits, and things you think are important.
These are the common factors that I consider for the compatibility that I am pertaining to: Personality Compatibility; Communication Compatibility; Friends and Family Compatibility; Health and Nutrition Compatibility; Financial Compatibility; Educational Compatibility; Intimate Compatibility.
So what can you do if you are not compatible? You can accept things as they are, work on yourself and the relationship or leave the relationship.
If you opt for change, you can only change yourself. It's unreasonable to demand that the person in your life changes unless they want to. If you are in the dating and selection process, it is much more effective to choose a compatible partner now than it is to "fix" something that is "broken" later. Don't be afraid to let go if things are not working out. Sometimes love really is just not enough. There are other people out there who has been there for you and all you have to do is look around you.
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6 responses
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
its really really hard to find someone whom we can say that he/she is the one. and we can only say that he/she is the one because we are compatible to each other. somebody will come to our lives, but there is missing, and there is somebody who will across our way whom we like but it seems complicated. so its hard in my case huh.
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@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
It is just up to us how we will handle that kind of situation if we were put to it. We are all wise to choose what is right or what is wrong. If you think what you are doing is right then go for it. If not then we should just stay with our current relationship and accept all mistakes that the current relationship gives. We always have to be contented on what we have.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
I always start my relationship through friendship. Through that friendship I am able to determine whether the person is compatible with me in terms of intelligence, wit, wisdom and personality. It is only through that friendship that I am able to develop my feelings and see whether we are really compatible. Someone who can keep up with me surely is compatible with me.
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@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
The base of every great relationship would start in good friendship. You will be able to know all about this person if you were able to be with him for quite sometime being friends. You will definitely know your compatibility lever if you have been in good terms starting as friends. Thank you for the nice response.
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@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
11 Nov 10
Well, it's the first time I heard that opposites attract but usually that results in a failed relationship. Hmm...I haven't been into a relationship yet so I don't know. To me, if the man and the woman both love each other and have almost similar personalities and likings, then that would make an ideal relationship.
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
Thank you for sharing your point of view, You will then know it if you already experience it. Have a great weekend.
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@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
10 Nov 10
Hi Aaron
I agree with you that if you have certain priorities then you should look for them before otherwise to keep your relation then you yourself need to be changed. If you dont want to change then you should take care of every thing that you want in other person.
There are different things and factors, you already mentioned, one should want in their life partner but for me family background or like these things are not much necessary, the only thing is your relationship among each other, do you understand each other and do you have trust on each other. If you both have developed trust and understand each other fully then the other things dont count.
For me, just simple thing, trust, on you and trust on her...:)
Be happy and be the reason of happiness in others life...:)
Keep smiling:)
Keep smiling:)@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
Yes. it is me who said it. Trust is really important. You should also consider what the person you love would think if she finds out something that you have said or posted before in some of the responses you have posted. Have a wonderful weekend.
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@taz_dolly (93)
•
11 Nov 10
May be compatibility is easy to find it but the things is if u compatible to that you should know the bounder. Trust is the best thing
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
Trust. friendship and attraction should be the base for every relationships. Compatibility would just fall after you already seen the spark between you.
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@xiaobo983 (5)
• China
11 Nov 10
I'm looking for someone who is right for me ,but i haven't found.
I believe this is a luck think.
It can only be found by accident , and not through seeking.
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
I am sorry to here that! You are correct, it is not someone that you should seek. It will just come along just like an opportunity would knock only once. Or maybe the person you were looking for has just been there along with you. You should have to notice. Thank you for sharing. Have a great day.
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