Will you sacrifice the friendship because you fell in love with your friend?
By joysantos
@joysantos (131)
Philippines
November 10, 2010 10:16pm CST
This scenario often happens to those who are friends for years. The guy fell in love with the girl and vice versa. But sometimes, feelings are left unspoken because of the fear that it might destroy the friendship. If you're put in this kind of scenario, what will you do?
4 responses
@tummalapalli (251)
• India
11 Nov 10
Well.... I got into the same situation exactly 9 months back.... And I gathered all my courage to tell her everything.... I told her... She rejected.... Due to some silly reasons... And then... She asked to be friends as we used to be... But I couldn't.... And from then on I never spoke to her... Though she is in the same class as me all this time... I have to spend an year and a half more in the same class without talking to her....
@sundownkid (115)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
Dude, talk to her man. You're the guy, you got to show her some respect. She loves you as a friend and that's the best you could get, accept it. You don't need to be her lover to show her love. Her reasons weren't silly for her, lol. Make her feel special, like a princess. Make her feel loved, respected and treasured. The next you'd know, she'd fallen for you, then reject her. LOL. Vengeance is bitter sweet man.
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@tummalapalli (251)
• India
12 Nov 10
Dude.... its easier to say.... but it wont be the same to do it.... I do make her feel like a princess... but she has her own reasons... And i tried a lot to be friends with her... But thats not working for me.... Its way too distracting to stay friends for my studies....
@sundownkid (115)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
I would rather not. I love the company of my girl best friend and most of my relationship end up badly so I would spare her from all the hurt and the tears. I might admit she's sizzlin hot and there are a lot of times that we share intimate moments together just for the fun of it but her to be my lover, maybe not. But hey, like I said, she's effin hot, maybe I can't stop myself forever. LOL.
@dragonangel (551)
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11 Nov 10
A sure yes to your question.If i feel that I'm in love with my best friend then i wouldn't hesitate to open my heart and confess how i feel for him thinking that we even do well as friends, how much more if we try to make the relationship deeper.If he accepts it then it would be awesome though i he rejects in then I might feel a bit sad for a time being.Then maybe later I could accpet things and come back to be best friends again.
@marifel86 (111)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
Everything has it's own risks.I guess whatever side we take,there are certain risks involved.If given the case, since i am a girl,it would be better to wait for the guy to confess his feelings for me.I guess sending hints would be the thing i would just do.I mean,although there are things left unspoken, i think if both really love each other..their actions would speak for themselves and when they would confess it,it would be just a sign of affirmation.For people having this dilemma,it would be better to weigh things out and to be brave.It's better to tell the person you love him/her than left the words unspoken.I guess it's also a matter of timing.
