should you keep an engagement ring after you break up?
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
5 responses
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
This is a very tough question. I think it would be best if I give him back to him. Accepting the ring is like accepting the proposal unless he gives me a ring for just some petty reason. I will keep the ring because it's a gift but an engagement ring, I will return back.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 Nov 10
I wouldn't keep it either. it would remember me of him so if I still had feelings for him this it would only make things worse for me and make me feel really bad. so i think I would return the ringt to him. is better like that. this way we could both move on and be happy with somebody else.plus if I start a new relationship my new boyfriend would ask me hey baby...why do you have an engagement ring on your finger? what could I answer...nothing special I was engaged to somebody else we broke up and I kept the ring. I guess he would feel really hurt. I would feel too if I were in his position
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
6 Dec 12
I think i don't like to keep the ring after breakup . As the relation is over. Even though i love gold.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
12 Nov 10
An engagement ring is a symbol of promise. it is the promise of a relationship of the future with the one you love. If that relationship falls apart, i dont think it is fair to the other person to hold on to the engagement ring any longer. It would just give them false hope.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
4 Dec 12
Heheh....engagement ring means gold rind and I love gold so I wear the ring even after break up but dont wish about our breakup.
@semi5penny (4)
• United States
5 Nov 11
why would you want to? it would be like your holding on to the past by keeping it... i say either give it back and if he doesnt want it sell it!