Which is more difficult ?

There are some people in this life that quiet, charming, loving, emanating a great inner beauty (soul) we promise you anything, their love for you .... traverses centuries, for to make you happy, and are other people who although promise you everything, their love does not last more than a minute ...

Saying I Love you to my boyfriend comes quite easy as he so deserves to be loved. So I suppose for me it would be hard if I was not reciprocated and or preempted every now and again.

I agree with you, listening for the answer is tougher. I remember when I told my boyfriend that I loved him. I was crying so hard and so scared that he wouldn't love me back for 30 minutes he told me how much he trusted me after I said that. And I just was ready to fall apart. When he dropped me off for the night he went ahead and told me that he loved me and I started crying some more in relief! That was rough!

If it's still in the process of confessing your love to somebody, both are difficult; but, if you're already in a relationship, I don't think that either of the two is difficult.

Saying of 'i love u' is much more difficult when one is not really sure of their feelings to their partner. Or it can be the other way round, loving him/her so much that no amount of words can describe that feeling. Listening is not that bad because we can find excuses for our love ones, brain washing ourselves we did not hear properly and that's not the truth.

Well, for me telling a girl that i love her is difficult specially when you are a shy guy and also think about what would she say yes or no. But i think that we should not live with this problem and tell the the person you love about your feelings. As it is better to hear no rather than regret later. I hope everyone does that. Happy mylotting. Regards, harry.

It is never difficult for me to look into my lover's eyes and tell how i feel about him. Waiting to hear those words from my lover would give me more anticipation.

Well if my husband hesitated to tell me he loved me that would just be weird. I think wating is the hardest part of anything. I remember past relationships that I was in love, and it was hard to say to them because you never know what they will respond with. Som maybe in that situation it is equal?!