when a friend lend you a money and harass you to pay it back...

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Let me tell you the whole story, I have a friend who happened to be my employer way back 2002, then after he's business failed, I worked for a different company by contractual. We still keep in touch and hang out together he is also the God father of my first baby, then when my second baby conceived the company force me to resign then suddenly after 4 months the company of my husband shut down, so he decided to study a barista course to get him employed abroad, the friend of mine offer me a job in 2007 since he need a graphic artist and since I also have clients existed he wants to worked with me and become my financer, he gave a credits of letting him lend me a money to buy a crib for my second baby so my mom can watch the two kids, and lend me some money again to meet my needs at home before I worked for him and when I started to worked for him he also give me some money to buy my babies needs such as milk and everything he was a good friend, until his girlfriend who also my friend forced me to resigned to their business because she is pregnant to other man, she don't want me to involved to their problem because I know the man who is the father of her child something like that, so she told him that I'm going out of the biz, he asked why and I answered its a family matter, then he asked me how about the debt, well I told him to pay when my husband finally gets a job abroad. He told me its ok you can pay me when you can. Then still we get together and bonding like a family and he helps me in everything after 3 years I still did not paid my debt to him, because when my husband got a job abroad we talk that i will pay the agency/person first the one who lend us money too for my husband processing fee and placement fee and to our landlord also because we also have a monthly dues at our house that we did not paid coz we don't have jobs and we have 2 kids I almost feel the whole world is in my back, I have so many big problems and until its still in me, God help me, then this year my son got a hernia and hydrocele and need and operation but I prayed to God and after 5 months of prayers He answered suddenly one day my Son's hernia and hydrocele is gone but I still have a no money for a check up and so on, then yesterday one major problem bang on my ears when my cellphone rang and answered it, the father of my friend called me and tell me everything about everything about the debt 3 years ago I know thats my fault but I did not run away to my debt I still promise to pay them this month till next month but the father told me how rude I was and how I disrespect them and how much they help my family and yet this is what they gonna get from me, something like that so like I am the very bad person they met in their whole life...like what?????? Yeah I admit, I don't have a lot of money but I am not a bad person...I did not use anyone to benefit my needs, yeah I do have debt but I am in a 100% mode of paying it, if they can just wait for a little more time its time for me to pay for them. I understand why they do this to me. Because on the other story I've been an employee of our common friend then they don't want me to resign or they just give me a bad story to others because of they help me too and then I resign its all because of my child has sick and need mothers attention so i decided to resign again this year and they are so angry and mad at me and since they are a common friends the one i have debt and the latest employer of mine make a talkings and maybe just maybe the one who are mad at me told the friend of mine who i have debt that i will not gonna pay my debt so they need to harass me for my payment, and the call is yesterday and i need to pay them on monday I'm stressed and don't know what to do and now I am here in myLot try to discuss this matters, and help me ease the heavy feelings i have here, I'll pray that this will end too..and please myLotters pray for me too... thank you...