How to make a good impression on a girl.
By koAebryant
@koAebryant (358)
China
November 13, 2010 7:11am CST
I met a girl the other day.I have some feelings about her.I do nor know whether I make an impression on her.But I must make a good impression on her next time.I do not know what to do can make a good impression.Could you give me some advices?Such as how to talk with her,how to imply my love to her and so on.
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9 responses
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
13 Nov 10
Hi Koaebryant
Nice to hear from you that you selected a girl and have some feelings for her, I think you should always be neat and clean and having good attractive and decent dress up, because it is said first impression is last impression and I think your first impression on her ll be your look so, I think you should look better. Then the next thing is to talk, for talking you should be polite in speaking, girls like to speak much, so for that you should have to be a good listener and then your talk should be around her interest, if you are going out of her interest she ll think you a boring person, meeting with her two or three times ll let you know that what are her interests and then she ll feel happy in your company.
You can offer tea etc after your first meeting and there you can exchange ideas but in first meetings you should be more listener than a speaker, listen to her to judge about her, because some time it is really very bad the person` looks are different from their personalities so talk to her and judge about her...:)
Have nice meeting, and you may find your soul mate...:)
Have a nice day...
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
13 Nov 10
Good impression...
u surely need to talk to her in a polite manner and do not try any extra ordinary speech or stunts.
Please always keep in mind, that u have to talk about her qualities when u are talking to a girl.
don't say more about you, just give some little information about you and ask about her more, so that she will impressed that u are more interested in her.
By the way don't ask more information, she may be actually irritated.
Ask her likings...
Just develop day by day..Don't be in a hurry !!!
Farewell !!
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
13 Nov 10
The best skill you can develop when talking with anyone is to really listen. Make eye contact, and take in the meaning of the words they are using. Be truly interested in what they are saying. That way they know that you really value them.
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@mandy8611 (154)
• China
15 Nov 10
try to know what kind of girl she is from people around her. like what she likes, what she doesn't like. when you talk with her, try to keep smile and be humourouse and polite. then she will have a good impression on you. if you knwo what she is interested in, try to talk about it, then you two have a topic
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
as long as one is hygienic one is safe in making a good impression. as long as one stays true to one's self, but not be so hard in trying to stay to true to one's self (if you know what i mean - not be so hard and loud in saying or insisting, "this is me") then i guess if a person still doesn't like you then it means she doesn't like you.
we cannot please everybody and that is true. if one doesn't like us for who we are we cannot insist.
it's like a food we don't like. no matter how good the intention of the person serving the food to us is it still wouldn't taste right. right?
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
13 Nov 10
"Show her the money", that certainly make good impression. I was just kidding with you, that is really cheesy. Well, to be honest, I didn't make good impression on the girls I like, and certainly my advice won't be valuable, because my technique certainly fail you if you use it. My friends always try to be nice, and he always try to be humorous. If you can make her laugh, that you achieve your mission.
@shaggin (72241)
• United States
13 Nov 10
First of all you dont want to show a girl that you just met that you love her. You cannot truly love someone that you just met. It takes time getting to know the person to grow to love them. So what you want to do is show her that your interested in her. The most important thing is to be yourself. You dont want a girl to fall for you and then find out your not who she thought because then shes not going to like the real you so whats the point you know. My best advice is just to listen to her when she talks. Truly listen so you can remember what she says and she will feel appreciated.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
14 Nov 10
You only met her the other day you say and already you want to declare your love for her! I wouldn’t get too serious so soon or she may just run away! I think that striking a casual conversation is the way to go; you could pay her a compliment such as, “I like your broche/pendant/bracelet” (if she is wearing one) Saying something positive about the other person is always a good start and remember to ask questions about her and don’t talk too much about yourself, people always like others who show an interest in them. You’ve got to show that you are listening and interested in every word she says. Good luck with it and remember that if you get along well the conversation will just flow...Best of luck!
@AnnaDine (92)
• Denmark
14 Nov 10
I just think that you should say hey and give her a little smile. Then she get interested, and then she wan't more. And the next step is that you should talk a bit to her, about who she is or what she are doing today.
Or just be friends with her on Facebook :-)