confess your affair?

I am not the type of person who can hide any guilt for long. It would eat away at me. I would have to confess an affair to my partner and suffer the consequences that would follow. It would be the only way I could live with what I had done.

I wouldn't. But If he finds out and I have no other choice nor can't even deny it, then I would confess. Why I won't? Because I'm a woman and if my husband finds out I'm having an affair he would definitely go physical on me. But if I'm a guy, I would tell my girl I'm having an affair just so I won't complicate my situation that I'm into. I'll tell her I'm just flirting and ask her forgiveness and promise not to do it again. Or I'll admit to her I am having an affair because things are not working with us anymore and we should go and separate.

I think we should not confess about every single thing that we do, there are times when you need to keep things to yourself most especially if it could stain a relationship for a lifetime. I know what I did was bad (the affair) and there's no turning back to that one, however, if it's something which is a one-time deal and I wouldn't probably do anymore (because the stress would not be worth it anyway). Then I guess there's no reason why anyone else should know this.

errr..that is a tough decision maybe not, he cannot trust me again if i do that way. or maybe he want to cheat me to pay me back. i won't those things happen to me