if someone cheats, do you still give another chance?

What guranteed that the cheated partner won't cheat again? No is it. So if we forgive the cheated partner, will he/she won't cheat again? To make it worse, most of them will cheat again on you after you forgave them. So what the point of forgave them? Ok, we forgive because it is a good nature to always forgiving but not coming together after all the heart ache. For me, I will forgive but I won't forget and I would certaily will not be able to continue with the relationship any longer even if I forgive my partner.

Where a relation covered with true love there doubt,misunderstandings can't break it....if one of the couple is not perfect,then he can be create a gap in relation,if my love cheat me i can't give her another chance because i don't give her a another chance to break my heart again.........am i right??

I believe that everyone deserves to have a second chance. Even a cheater needs to feel they are deserving of a second chance. It may be hard to give, but i believe it is worth the effort. forgiveness can come as long as the heart is willing. a cheater could possibly slip and cheat again. Don't assume this and give them a chance to prove you wrong.

did somebody hurt you..?? as per my view we can give the person a next chance, if the person proved himself/herself as a cheater again then no mercy will available. its my personal experience. I've also faced a cheat from my ex-girlfriend, then i did that i said you but listen your heart first. Believe is the base of relations so never lost it... be happy.. :))

before you could ask this question......one important thing you must remember is to know why they even thought of cheating you and what did you do that forced them to cheat you in the first place.......if you get an answer to that question, you will for sure know if you would like to give them another chance.

I believe a perfect relationship is create on believe to each other. If there any one can cheats you, then you again can't trust your partner. So, you don't spend a good life with this partner. So, i don't think to give another chance to my cheater partner.

This is a heinous act, we know this but, if you truly love that person, and they are sorry for what they did...forgive them. If you cannot handle their infidelity, then you should go your separate ways. There's nothing worse than the torment of knowing in the back of your mind they will do it again. You invite suspicion, etc... Do yourself a favor, let Jesus be the center of your life so that when pain comes, He can bring healing...like He did for my family.

This has happened to me before. I came home one day and found another guy with my girlfriend, I gave her another chance but she continued to cheat on me, soo I just gave up on her. If I found out my current girlfriend was cheating on me, I don't think I could ever forgive her just because of my ex-girlfriend. Everyone is different, if your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend cheated on you and you stayed with them you have a lot courage and that just something I wouldn't have.