how can you forget your last relationship to some one you love?

For me it is happened that way because your living is not good a this time then you know that your ex is rich for now so you sad and you hope that my life is good when I and him is last to married be prayed to Jehovah God that he can erased you feeling to your ex.

Maybe we can't fully forget about our ex-girfriend/boyfriend. But, we can reduce it. Well I have experienced it, just like you said above. Here is the story.. I talk about my feeling to her directly even I have a relationship with other girl at that momment. And I just like to said that I love her without hoping she will love me back or anything after I said that. And I ask her to promise that she will just be friend with me forever. I don't know if it works to the others, but it's working for me.

i think you need to fall in love (truly fall in love) with another man first, before you can say to yourself that you've totally gotten over him...and i know it's not easy. it takes time. lots of time. to really, hardly, truly, fall in love with someone else..... i had to wait years before finding the one i'm with now. and when i finally did, i could say, i am 101% over my ex.... and i don't advice rebound relationships :(

hello sadie213! your post got me to thinking, how was i able to forget the one i loved most? well, for one, i have not really forgotten him. From time to time, through some smell, scenery, lines of a song, color, i suddenly remember him and i feel that familiar but already locked-in longing for the what-ifs. Three years ago, i would have said i could not live without him. But as it has been said, time heals all wounds and time did that to me. I was able to forgive whatever he has done but i must admit that i still remember the guy sometimes but i don't remember the intense feelings i had for him, anymore. One thing i did, and the one thing i can advice you, is not to strive really hard to forget him or the relationship, for doing so would only get you to thinking more of him. Just try to live with your present life, be thankful for the people you have now and enjoy every minute with them. Don't force yourself to forget, just let the good memories of the present slowly erase the memory of the past. Give your present partner the chance to love you as much as he can. If you keep on thinking about your ex, you'd end up missing the opportunity of enjoying what you have now because the shadow of your past would always hound you.

It means that you are the one who were not able to forget and let go. As you said , your ex bf already has his own family, so it means he moved on already. I guess you have to do the same , because if not, even if you marry many times, you'll just separate ways because you are admitting that you still love your ex. Never enter another relationship unless you know that you have overcome already your past. Have a good day. ;-)

Well it's hard to forget someone you loved very much. When my ex-girlfriedn broke up with my I was very sad for long time, but I think that you have to think like "Life goes on" even it's very hard.

i think you need to fall in love (truly fall in love) with another man first, before you can say to yourself that you've totally gotten over him...and i know it's not easy. it takes time. lots of time. to really, hardly, truly, fall in love with someone else..... i had to wait years before finding the one i'm with now. and when i finally did, i could say, i am 101% over my ex.... and i don't advice rebound relationships :(