How do you get a guy interested in you?

November 14, 2010 11:07am CST
How do you start a conversation? When is too much, and when will he get annoyed? What do you say or do to get the guy you like interested?
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Nov 10
I like to start with the little things that get a guy's attention. it may be an article of clothing, a glance or something i've said. You don't have to go over overboard to gain a guy's interest. If he really is interested in you, he won't be annoyed by what you say or do. He may just appreciate what you are doing.
@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Nov 10
There is a filmy theory but quiet applicable. At the first meet asking like " i think i have seen you somewhere, am i?" ," i think i know you, have we ever met each other?" try.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
14 Nov 10
Well I'm a guy, so I would answer the question in a another way like how I want a girl to show that she is interested in me. If she just look at me and smile sometimes in the beginning, and do it so I notice it, then if she looks good and smile, then I could be interested in her. When she has done that for a while, and I look back and smile to her, then she would get many points if she came to me, and just say "hi" or ask me a simple sweet question. In this way we would start talk with eachother, and then no one knows what can happens. A thing she should never do is to stalk me. Follow me all the time. It's very annoying, and it would just piss me off. Relax and smile and be yourself. Best advice for me.
@chicko (86)
• India
14 Nov 10
May be you could try, "are u new in school?" or can we have lunch together? Look for things that are common in you two, then use those to strike up a conversation. If he responds well, continue. Else just leave him alone, there are many others out there! Generally you can make out when somebody is enjoying a conversation and when somebody is getting bored. So if you get the feeling that he is not responding well, he could be disinterested or bored... Dont try too hard to get his attention. Be yourself, show him your strengths, positive traits, whatever you are good at.. Then if he likes you, great! If he doesnt, find somebody else! Im sure if you are a honest, kind, generous, fun person, he will definitely like you!