Who going to marry someone like me?

Why don't you stay single? If you're single you can live happily with your little income. And don't have to worry about supporting your family.

you know..you don't fall into desperation because love is around you..surely you just find the right combination but it would happen if you are wise to seea dn search good!!

Well, first of all NO ONE is useless. I would say get up and get out of the house and find something to do, a way to provide for yourself and then eventually for your wife. There are many things to do - unconventional even, such as working mylot! And most of all - be yourself!

I am lonely. but I just make myself happy all the time with the company of my friends and family. Maybe you should just try to notice a person that has been there along with you eversince you got to know her. She is just there waiting for you.

Freezole, that's actually my question, lol. I'm also on your side, don't worry. I question myself of who will marry a man like me. Many better man around the world, and I'm on the last place in this case. However, just be confident. God has arranged a girl for you. Just believe in Him, so you never be worried. Okay bro?

I think there's got to be some one out there who realy loves you and care about you. and I believe everyone has their fair about marriage :)

Hi Freezole and welcome to MyLot! When I read you post I get the impression that you focus on the negative things and the things that you don't like, and I think that you need to change your perspective and focus more on the positive things and things that you have to offer when you meet new people. Like someone else wrote, you could try to write a list about the positive things about you. Maybe you find it hard to get started, but try to find small things as well as big things. I don't believe that you are useless. You feel useless, but that is not the same. Have you thought about getting involved in some voluntary work? That way you could get a feeling that you are doing something useful and you could gain more confindence and meet new people.

I would not mind marrying someone who wasn´t handsome or rich. But a woman needs some support too. You cannot expect anyone to care for you and not recieve love and support back. I read your post and there´s not a single sentence where it says what would YOU give to your beloved. Weicome to mylot!

You make your own life. You must make it livable beyond just existing.If you are proud of being yourself and carry yourself well, chances are you will meet someone and he or she will fell in love with you. then there is that school of thought that says that marriage is made in the heavens. So your turn will come.

That's not the right attitude to have. I think that you need to stop thinking! Seriously! LOL Everyone has a someone..sometimes it just takes longer to find them. If you give up now then you may never find that special someone! I'm not sure how to advise you to overcome lonelines..I have that problem a lot and I just keep myself busy-reading or artsy projects..working..anything to keep my mind from self pity.

Hello Freezole welcome to mylot First of all stop thinking negetive, second always hope for some thing postive like nice job, a home of your own, keep up your efforts till you achieve it, have faith on god I am sure many will come forward to marry you lol.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.

Hi, I think you are in some kind of depression.You need to come out of that depression,No one is useless in this world.If you think you can do you will do it, If yo thin you cannot you will never do it.That can be anything a job or study,or a business. I strongly advice you to come out of your depression. Take a white sheet and list out your positive points Like 1. I am physically fit 2. I can write and read 3. I am .............. I am sure every person will have a minimum of 10 positive points,concentrate and come up in life, any girl will marry you. Forget about marriage and concentrate on your life. Good luck

hi freezole, well it is an old saying " marriages are made in heaven & celebrated on earth" so u hv time to wait but money is vitally important to live life and to live happily it is needed more. so think in this direction, i mean think to make some money otherwise how will u survive with ur spouse. one thing i can say for definite that u r not useless. God has created u to perform certain task. explore ur self & think positively.BEST OF LUCK

I think you MUST not feel so lonely. I know it is difficult to FIND A PARTNER. But I also think that if SHE will not come to you, then YOU will have to go to her. FOR EXAMPLE, maybe you could find NEW PEOPLE. Maybe you could sign up to some COURSES (cooking, sport,dance, painting, something you like)... All depends on YOU! GOOD LUCK!

Personally, I feel there is always a purpose for one in existence. It may be just that you have not discovered your worth. Instead of dwelling in loneliness, why not make yourself useful by helping people out. This will make you a useful person and so useless is out. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, hence, not so handsome is out since handsome is subjective. Talent? I am sure you have at least one. Money? is it no money or not enough money? Friend, have faith in yourself. Once you have the confidence, you will have company.

Everybody need someone to rely on and to share. it is a secret and let it remain a secret who will be the partner of your life. i don't want to be alone, especially when i die later. i want to have my husband and my kids beside me

We are in the same boat brother. I have the same fear regarding marriage. It's just doubt or fear but in case of you i think you are suffering from inferior complexity. It will harm you if you can't come out from it's racket. If you have someone for your talent, money, appearance... then be sure it's not a love just an agreement. Marriage needs commitment not consignment. best of luck.

If you have no money, no talent, not so handsome and useless then no woman in her right mind would marry you. Everyone feels down every now and then. If you want someone to like you then you have to start with yourself first. If you don't have money then it's about time you start looking for a job. If you have no talent, then it's about time you discover something about yourself. If you are not handsome, then you can compensate by grooming yourself better. If you think you're useless then do something that can make yourself worthy, you can start by doing household chores. There are a lot of things you can do with your life and be happy than spending it feeling sorry for yourself.

Believe that there is someone out there for you who will love you and accept you for who you are. Maybe you have not found her yet but I'm sure you will. Think that you are not alone. There are other people in different part of the world who are in the same situation as you and feels the same way too. What I mean is you are not alone with that kind of situation and feeling. Do not pity yourself nor put down yourself too much. If you feel lonely, make more friends and find real friends you can talk to and make you feel comfortable. Go out with them and have fun to lessen the boredom you might feel of being lonely.

I can empathize with you Freezole. I also have no money. My problem is that I'm old and in my culture, if you are old and with no money, then the women are rare. But I see that you said you have "no talent"??? EVERYONE has talent of some kind! Find that talent and work on it. That might help you to get money as well. And most of all, have patience. I have patience that someday I will find that special woman and you never know, I might have a long healthy life as well.