seek for a good partner
By Cherwin2010
@Cherwin2010 (878)
Philippines
November 15, 2010 9:09pm CST
Every-one of us seek for a perfect partner, dream for a good relationship and build a happy family..but sometimes this dream could not easy to achieve, we have to go through some pain and failures in life before we are going to know who's the best for us..sometime because of our weakness to love someone we are easily giving up everything for him/her without knowing if we hurts in the end or if he/she is deserving for this..as we observed the lover's always end up with heart-aches and pain..but we have to accept the facts that as long you love you will get hurts..but others the came to practical when it regards to this matter (LOVE)..they don't want to cry anymore, they even not concern their own happiness, what they are concern is on how to leave luxuriously...
now i ask you guys, which type of love you want to apply in your life?
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11 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
16 Nov 10
Hi sweetie.
How are you?
To love or be loved is never easy.
You don't just give up what you are used to, but you have to learn to accept the new life and love that you have.
We will always get hurt, nothing can change that, but so we learn.
Luxurious life's don't bring you happiness or love.
Been there, done that.
It's really not worth it.
I want a simple life with someone who loves me for what and who i am.
More than that, i don't want, thanx.
TATA.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
hi sap..i am very fine! you have a point sap! even we are hurt but still we continue to give our love to others., to experienced some failures and pain, is our weapon in order to stand in the field of love..no matter if we get hurts, the important is we give our best to them..God Bless!
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
16 Nov 10
I think we all like to be able to find a good partner. Someone to share the good times and the bad ones with and find a loving relationship with his something we all hope for in a partner. We want someone who will be there for us and shares our interests. Sometimes it's easy to find that good partner. Other times, we may look for them all our life. Once we find them, we should not let them go.@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
yes it is..we must have to value our love.,make it as one of our treasure..our memories, our past, bad time or good times..it is part of our life..
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
16 Nov 10
The onlylove i worry about anymore is from family & friends. I gave up a long time ago & finding a man to love me like i wanted to be loved.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
yes it is really right! if we fall down and losing hope, they are the one who we can turn on too..who will comfort us in time of difficulties, who give us strength and give some advices to move on..who always their for us to cheer up to continue our journey in life..in the end our family and friends are the one we can lean on...
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
16 Nov 10
I'm a beginner in Love category .
just started 3 months ago. It is going fluently and growing in a pleasant way.
I don't want to hurt or get hurt.
I just need a peace and pleasure and a healthy relationship.
I don't know the up's and down's of life, because i have just entered the adult stage in my life.
I'm learning and i will be learning soon ..
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
GUNAGOHAN, i understand your feelings, but we cannot run out of hurts and pain once we are falling in-love to someone else..when you get hurts, it means you fall in-love..no one exemption when it comes to this matter, because we have a heart..
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Nov 10
I have been in a wonderful relationship now for almost five years whereas it took several past bad relationships to get where I am at. I must say although none of which my own errors, I have somehow learned from them.
As it took really evaluating what went wrong then determining what exactly I wanted in my future to realize where the errors where from and well glad are done as then I would not be with the one I so love right now.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
to experienced some failures and pain to someone else, can help us to stand strong and learn for our wrong move and decision we have..we have to fail sometimes in order to become a good one..so for next steep we have to make we know already what is the right way to do because we learn already to our mistakes.
@mollu2508 (47)
•
16 Nov 10
Hi..! my first question to you do you love anybody? I'm in a love relation form last 2 years we spend many time together by fighting ,dating , moving around to parks etc. last year I've faced a breakup with this person only for a misunderstanding, but this after a hard try i gathered a believe & we patched up again....
so as per my view the BELIEVE is the only thing to keep a love relation stronger
because you can believe the person you love & you can love the person you believe...
and another thing is FRIENDSHIP the person whom you love he/she should be your best friend because then only he/she can understand you or you can share your feelings to...
i think this way can make relation stronger, & make your dream comes true..!!
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
i haven't experiences to love anybody but only one..i am so lucky to choose a good partner in life..but it doesn't mean that i will not get hurts anymore..there are no perfect relationship because we are only human weak and sometimes easily give-up..but even i didn't experienced it but sometimes we learn from others mistakes, that's why i am very careful to choose my partner in life..
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Nov 10
cherwin I have already been there and done that.I had a wonderful
husband whom I loved very much and we had 33 years of marriage.we
weathered the good and the bad. Myhusband loved me uncondiionally
just as I was shy and plump and all, and I loved him the same way.why most relationshipss fail is people now days want Mr perfect or miss perfect and instead they get a real live humam being who makes errors and blunders and loves them but the other cannot accept any imperfections in a mate. if only when they fall in love it sould ve with the persons as is, accepting all their good points and their bad points. so trhe only kind of love for me ever in my long life is unconditional, putting no conditons on anything,not saying I will love you if you lose weight or dye your hair or whatever. we must accept that nobody is perfect.
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
I used to be stupid in terms of love, now I get to understand it more. I am happy now that I found someone who cares about me and loves me for who I am whatever changes that may apply to me. I do not care what other people thinks as long as I feel loved. It is common though to get hurt, you should be prepared for it, for every relationships are prone to that. The first thing I try not to be, is to be only concern with my personal intentions but also the happiness of my partner. Do not be selfish in love because when you're trying to love, you're not only having fun for yourself. Always support your partner not matter what. Do not leave him/her behind. A great relationship is a great responsibility.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
16 Nov 10
i want a guy that really loves me and cares for me for who i am. i dont want a guy bcs he is rich or bcs can buy me all i want. i just want one that gives me care and love^^ if i have that i be very happy already. i really dont need anything else. im not the kind of girl that needs a guy that can fullfill all her wishes like buy shoes or expensive things. all i need is one that tells me he loves me, needs me and kisses me and hold me tight. i be so happy if i have that ahah 
i guess that is what everyone needs^^ 
i guess that is what everyone needs^^ @emperor01 (7)
• India
16 Nov 10
The true partner is don't move to critical situation, the true partner is discovered in this situation
@taz_dolly (93)
•
16 Nov 10
I want to be love and to love but hurt is together with love rite i am not saying get you perfect match that it will not happen it all concomitant so it well if you are same path and love
