I really want to Live a happy Life
By Loverica19
@Loverica19 (43)
Philippines
November 15, 2010 9:42pm CST
I want to shake things off, I want forget the hurt I've got in my heart and forget my friends who hurt me. I want to be strong enough and be fair and brave enough. Most of all I want to take chances for my life to be successful.. I would like to forget my friends who pulls me down.. But what should I do?... I felt Hopeless...I don't know where to start when every things broken.. Please help me
5 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
Friends are meant to hurt you in the end. You may not know it but all you need to do right now is calm down and think of a nice solution to your problem.
..And what do you mean when you say that everything's broken?
@Loverica19 (43)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
Hi thanks for your reply, Yes, my life's very messed up. I don't have enough savings, family's separated, my friends pull me down, they make me their shock absorber,then they blame me. People cheated on me and I feel so terrible...
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
This may sound a bit cliche but in order for your life to turn around you have to think positive and keep it up. Take it from a guy who was constantly being yelled at from his job. 
@ajith_kumar (721)
• India
3 Dec 10
Good decision taken by you to live a life happily ,To live a happy life first think you should do is don't care about person who discourage .Do whatever you like but think before you do that's it .Have some goal in your life and try to achieve you will become the happiest man in the earth.
@mhypie03 (683)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Surround yourself with trust worthy people. You maybe neglecting those who would care more than you could imagine. Thos with positive outlook in life, somehow who has godly advices that can keep you going. I know it's hard to find this kind of people but believe me, there just around the corner knocking on you door unknowingly.
@janetan17 (25)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
Give yourself a break. Breathe...maintain distance from these people and situations that stress you up. Find new friends. They could still hurt you in the future but at least they would help you forget the past hurts. Involve yourself in a new activity like a new sports or a charitable/missionary organization. Free your mind from the past by staying away from it and getting involved with something new. Then, seek divine help from the One who knows you most - our Creator. Pray and meditate on His Word. The healing process is long and painful but it would really help you out. Take it from someone who have been betrayed, abused, and have suffered severe depression but survived!
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
Take your time ,you are very young, take a break, spend a quite time by your self, focus more on your assets rather than your hurts, regroup but at the same time create a fall back position in case things do not become what you expect them to be. A famous singer once said " all things must pass" and i believe you have also heard " time is a great healer". Take it from somebody my age, what i had gone thru but still i'm here at mylot haha, another thing pray, hard but pray for those who had done you wrong, it will take out a lot of that pain,and remember me and my family will be praying for you tonight, God bless and take care
