The matter that I concerned

What did I, and several other people on mylot, tell you? We told you that their are other women out there. We told you that she probably isn't the right one for you. We told you that she might be ignoring her feelings. We told you that things like this happen. My advice, keep yourself busy right now, do some self-improvement, and make her want you. Present yourself in an extremely confident way that she is going to (hopefully) beg for you. She might also be guarding herself right now because something might be going on in her life that is preventing her from loving anyone.

If by ‘I have a little black’ you are referring to the colour of your skin I am here to tell you that is completely irrelevant! What has the colour of your complexion have to do with love and romance? I am guessing that this girl probably may simply feel that you are not the one for her and that should not have any reflection on you! I would let this one go, enjoy life and before you know it you will more than likely meet another girl and who knows? It may be true love this time?

"A little black?" Your color Should Not make a difference. You can't change our color! All you can do is lok your best when you go see her. If she isn't interested , There is nothing you can do to change her mind, especially if she is racist. A racist Can Never see the real person inside. All they see is color. And if she is like that, you are Too good for her in the first Place!Just be the best you can be when you see her and just say hello and see how it goes. If she isn't interested, then move on. Good Luck.

I am a woman and my answer would be that of a woman's in this case.:) I'd say go for it. You can never be sure that it is your color that bothers her. It could be that she is not aware of your full intention of her or she is not ready for you, yet. If I were you, I'll try some more and see what will happen next. Just a little patience will help. :) Goodluck.:)

it depends. if i know that the girl is the type who doesnt care much of the physique but the personality of the person i might pursue, but if she is the other way around, i won't. good luck pal! =)

My personal opinion is that we should not specifically date because someone is not hot and or looks great as what is the point if the person is vein. It is important that we as humans seek and enjoy the persons good nature. I am one that I suppose after the years did realize that a person could be so hot and yet was so mean that I could not get past their ugliness. Meaning that their personality superceeded their appearance. Besides why would you want to date a person who does not appreciate you for you. It is best to remain yourself and not change who you are as it would be too difficult to keep that persona up and perhaps ruin the potential of a great relationship. So my advice be yourself, and give it a try.. you never know she just might think you are the hottest thing alive.

Everything the others said and maybe work on your grammar too. It's a plus, I think, for girls if you're good in english.

You shouldn't force yourself on someone who doesn't like you at all because it will just make you feel depressed. When a woman is not into you, she's really not into you and it's not because of your color of how the way you look. You just have to find another girl for you and I'm sure you will find her soon. Don't dwell on someone who doesn't like you because she may not be worth at all.

go for it! I know it seems like girls think about appearance a lot , but really we care about feelings, sense of humour, or how nice people are. Here's a tip, if you can make her laugh, there's a chance she'll like you :)