Do You Shy Away From Controversial Discussions Or Topics?
By jujunme
@jujunme (2501)
United States
November 16, 2010 3:03pm CST
Sometimes i enjoy looking over the many responses given by members who seem to be of the opinion that discussions such as Religion or Politics are best avoided, due to how controversial and argumentative they sometimes tend to be.But, i have also noticed there are some who relish these topics and won't think twice about either starting a discussion or responding to them. I myself will very rarely , if ever start or respond to discussions on Politics, simply because i don't feel i could contribute much to the discussion since i admit i'm not well versed on this topic. I have however started a couple and many times responded to discussions regarding my beliefs and would say these discussions can become somewhat heated. So, tell me, do you most of the time play it safe by avoiding these topics? or,do you dive right in by starting or responding to these topics? And if so, why?
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@chocoholicx (228)
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16 Nov 10
I mostly like topics that are quite in depth because you're most likely to get such a wide range of answers to these. However, most in depth conversations tend to be either religious or political so I personally find them pretty interesting as I tend to find less intricate topics not as appealing. Also, I'm pretty opinionated in these sorts of topics so I like to share my view.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
17 Nov 10
Since i tend to get bored easily, i find controversial topics quite interesting as long as it stays as a discussion as i have no tolerence for those who feel they need to personally attack "anyone" in order to get their opinion across. As you mentioned you do get a "wide range of answers" that are both interesting and educational, i just wish others thought that way sometimes, they would get a lot more out of discussions if they looked at them that way.
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@chocoholicx (228)
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17 Nov 10
Yeah, I don't think it is appropriate to make personal attacks just because you have a different opinion, political stance or religious faith to someone else. I love how we are all different and that we all have different views so no one should be attacked for having a different opinion.
However, all the political discussions I've started have not got out of hand at all (even though for some of them, the amount of content we have written, could fill a whole novel!). Most of the time, I've seen people being respectful for other's views which is how it should always be like.
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
17 Nov 10
A discussion board is for the purpose of discussing and there are bound to be different ways of thinking and looking at matters. So if I see a topic where I have something to contribute, I do so, knowing full well that some won't agree. I'm very interested to see how different people think and allow for variations in thinking. I try to be respectful and courteous in my replies even if others disagree.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
17 Nov 10
The reason i believe some members will stay away from controversial subjects is because of how easily they can become less of a discussion and more of an argument and sometimes this occurs among 1 or 2 people disagreeing with other and going so far away from the original topic,one can lose interest in replying.but, i agree that as long as anyone can contribute anthing useful to the discussion it doesn't matter what the topic is.
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@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
16 Nov 10
I actually find it easier to respond to controversial discussions! I often have a lot more to say about something controversial than something that isn't! And you can usually get a good debate going back and forth. However, the downside is that people usually have very strong opinions about controversial topics, and it can easily go from an interesting debate to personal attacks in the blink of an eye!
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
17 Nov 10
Controversial discussions can be very educational and interesting as long as it's kept as a discussion and not an all out war.Some people just can't take being disagreed with and feel the need to attack without thinking or even caring how they're coming across to others who are just interested in expressing their opinions and having a meaningful discussion.I like debating on a topic i feel strongly about as much as the next person but, i don't feel i need to attack anyone in getting my opinion across.
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@6precious102 (4043)
• United States
17 Nov 10
I particularly respond to religious discussions when the originator or a responder writes something that is wrong and could have an adverse effect on them or another person. I know not everyone believes as I do; but since I'm so convinced of what I believe, I think I have a duty to share what I know in the hopes that the reader will see the light. Some will say that I'm full of myself, but when I consider how a person's ignorance or stubbornness can effect their eternity, I just have to say something. Yes, the discussions get heated at times, and I admit I contribute to that, but it's not anger that I'm feeling, but frustration. I'm frustrated with myself because I don't seem to be able to get my message across in a way that convinces the other party.
@jujunme (2501)
• United States
18 Nov 10
I also respond to quite a few religious discussions and like you i have some very strong opinions on this subject. I really don't mind if someone disagrees with me as everyone is entitled to believe what they want. What i have no tolerance for are people who make matter of fact statements, such as, "there is no God", or "God is a myth or superstition". 9 out of 10 times i find myself asking them why they just can't say they don't "believe" in him, or in their "opinion" there is no God instead of stating something they have no evidence for or could "never" prove.to me these responses are arrognat and anger provoking. and about your frustration, i know you feel you have a duty to share your beliefs and what you know regarding God, but, i'd also like to ease your frustration by saying that there sre some people, who no matter how much you try to help them, or how much you try to convince them that their beliefs may be wrong, they will continue to believe and live their lives the way they always have.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
16 Nov 10
I don't really think about the topics as controversial or non controversial, I decide if I will participate in the discussions based on how interested I am in them. So I honestly do not care. I think it is okay to have controversial opinions as well, as long as you explain yourself and respect others and their opinions.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
17 Nov 10
I think the reason some members avoid controversial topics is because people tend to have very strong opinions on these subjects and don't always respect the opinion of others . but i agree, if i'm interested in the topic , i will respond with my own opinion and don't really care if someone agrees with me or not.Afterall, we are all entitled to express our views and shouldn't worry about others responses.
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@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
17 Nov 10
I will never respond to or start such discussions. Mostly is because I don't know how to reply and some of them are so deep in political views and plus the fact that I've always avoided politics. Religion, on the other hand, I have totally now interest in it and the answers can be of any type. I really don't even know how to reply.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
17 Nov 10
I won't shy away from topics or discussions of controversy. If i have something that I would like to say on any topic, i will voice my opinion. not everyone will agree with me, but there will be some that do. This is what makes discussions interesting to participate in.