Forbidden Love
By fl0rencia
@fl0rencia (414)
Philippines
November 16, 2010 6:56pm CST
Hi guys! Has anyone of you have been on an forbidden love? Or currently in that situation? Like same s*x relationship, relationship with a relative, or just really forbidden because some people does not want you to be together. How do you handle this situation? What hardships have you been through? Don't you just want to give up?
6 responses
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
How long did it go? Does your parents doesn't like your boyfriend? Did they tell you the reason why they don't like him?
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
really? that's cruel, but I guess normal for a parent to do that.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
It's not easy at all. You cant tell your friends who know your parents or any of your relatives because they might spill.
I am always scared that my parents would find out about my relationship because I have denied it before and if they find out that it is true they would completely stop trusting me. Plus they would definitely get hurt because I lied about it.
Hopefully i get the guts to tell them about "us" someday.
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@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
I know what you feel daguno. That is something that is really hard to keep. Most of my friends are in that situation too. It's even harder because this is a small world. You can't go to the nearest mall and stroll in there holding hands because someone that knows your parents might see you. Especially, she/he can't go to your house to visit you. You have to go somewhere else. Somewhere far that no one knows who you are.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
17 Nov 10
I never consider my relationship with my girl as forbidden. For me forbidden only happened if you committed an immoral act. Involving in a same gender relationship is not a big issue compare to those who committed a crime.
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@yanyanyow (326)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
i think im my relationship today, it is considered as forbidden because my parents doesnt want me to have boyfriend yet but still we are going out together. i hide my relationship from them because i know how much i really love my boyfriend and knows its worth all the risk. but sooner or later they'll accept it because they know my guy little by little but as for know, they know he's my suitor.
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
That's a good start. Make your boyfriend prove himself to your parents that he is worthy of your love. :)
@joysantos (131)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
I know another type of forbidden love. It's when you are both committed but you still love each other and you make ways to see each other even if you know you're going to hurt someone. In this situation, we just need to choose who we really love and let go of the other.
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
I agree. In this situation, someone will get hurt on both ways, so better choose what will make you happy.
@mollu2508 (47)
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18 Nov 10
My second relationship with my girlfriend is a forbidden. Our parents don't agree tour relationship. They told it is forbidden, because we are relative in relationship. But there was no fault from us. Because we don't know it.
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
Woah, that is really a forbidden one. Is she your cousin? Your parents won't surely allow that because you guys are relatives. But if it's a long distance relative, I think there's nothing wrong about that.
