The End of Rope, The End of Hope

Don't worry.There must be a way to work it out .Maybe more communication is a good way to break the ice .According to a philosophical book ,anything external can destory a relationship .What breaks a couple is something inside .But you guys have to figure it out on your own .No one is going to do it for you .When you couple reach a agreement on the solution to your problem ,you are not far away from your happiness and sweetness.Have a nice day !

Hi sweetie. Not a easy walk in the park by the sound of this. I cannot think why most men just accept that it comes from only one person. haven't most of them learned by now that it takes two to make this work? I am not telling you to leave him, but if this keeps going on and talking doesn't help, so be it then. I am at the end of a very tight rope right now. Just let it go. It makes it easier to accept. Luck. TATA.

Hi Eureka! I will imagine that the rope is too long to end............I will keep trying till my last breadth to save my marriage. The rope of relationship should never 'end', If firmly believe because once it is broken, it cannot be mended in the same manner, as it was in its original shape and size. Please do not lose hope that you won't be able to find a 'tiny' bit of reason to continue. Say to your mind, you can and you will. All the best. Deepak PS - I know it is easier said than done, yet I said.

The general saying is "When the good times outweigh the bad, it's time to leave".

Try to convince to go to an spiritual adviser this might be of help to your problem. Also find out the root cause he is becoming and weak and selfish and discuss the problem. Marriage is a commitment and you can not just throw away so try your best to save it.

Wow, that really occupied me emotionally, as I enjoyed reading what marriage had in store for you. First looks and impressions don't rule out how your partner might be, and I feel empathy that you have to endure so much hardships. Well, I'll pray for you that things get better, but remember that you can only be yourself. If your husband wants you to change personally, you can't change what you've been born with. Its rather common for things like this to happen, and rest assured that a solution to this problem is only around the corner.

In a relationship, if the end has been reached, try to look back and see if there is possibility to pick up the pieces you missed. You can save it to connect at the edge to prolong the rope and again look forward with hope to lead your way to survive.

If i was at the end of the rope, i'd hold on with both of my hands and flip my body upside down and do the swinging lotus move. In short, i'd hold on and find a way to survive, much like what you are doing. I admire you for that.

As they say, love is irrational. When we love someone so much, we are so absorbed with that feeling that as sad as it may seem, we tend to forget our self worth..we hope that in holding on, things will change...we convince ourselves that in staying, that person will remember the promise that he has made. Unfortunately, it looks like we are waiting for the impossible thing. Until nothing is left for us to do but to make a decision...whether to live miserably or live freely even it hurts like hell in the beginning. This is what life is all about...the reality that there are some mistakes that you can learn from, and there are some mistakes that can change your whole life. I am not saying that it has been all a mistake, but since it didnt work out, then change is needed. Sometimes, change is what's best. Strength can be measured not by holding on but by letting go...good luck