Some times our heart want to forgive someone but mind can't want.......
By nirvik12345
@nirvik12345 (66)
November 17, 2010 1:07am CST
If you are in love, at the first time. But during a long time you want to express her your feelings. In that time your day and night spend just like that. You are in a zone of love, feelings, emotions. And your nature will support you as you like... But that time any one of your believable friend will cheat with you for some personal jealousy. But you never try to judge his behavior at past. One day when your love leads with a great motion. That time, that friend can't see this relation to be growth. He play a game for dividing both of you with some odd reason. From that day your love try to avoid you and one of her friend tell you the reason of avoid. You can't believe at first listening.Then your friend ignore his fault. But after some days you get proof. Then a question must come in your mind,"MAY I BELIEVE THAT FRIEND ANY MORE?" Or "CAN I FORGIVE HIM?"
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@mollu2508 (47)
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18 Nov 10
yes.. friend I'm agree with you, if the person is making an apologize then only we can forgive the person, because apologize shows that he has realize the fault that he/she done...
@nirvik12345 (66)
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18 Nov 10
I don't tell about me, that I'm a good person or bad. But i know, if i forgive him then my relationship with my partner and my friends is being good. And after that if i forget him then anyone can't tell me that"Now you are wrong".
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
17 Nov 10
Let the forgetting thing be in books, someone who has screwed your life, should be kicked nicely 
so that he never does it again. I know it does not look like a myLot kind of response, but I am sure you will feel that this is something that will make you at least satisfied and it is the right thing as well. What do you say?
so that he never does it again. I know it does not look like a myLot kind of response, but I am sure you will feel that this is something that will make you at least satisfied and it is the right thing as well. What do you say?@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
18 Nov 10
Then keep quite till the time you get married, once you get settled, screw his happiness nicely, actually he deserves it.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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18 Nov 10
I think that's a better idea. I really think about that. But i don't want to give him another chance. That's why i want to forgive him and i forget him.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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17 Nov 10
Not a bad idea dollar. It really give me satisfaction that i do him a perfect answer for his work. But it may a effect our(me and my girlfriend) relationship. I don't want any new problem.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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18 Nov 10
We are a human beings. Not GOD. God can do everything. But we can't. I think it's his mistake. But, he says there is his no fault. He don't think so, he did a mistake. So, what you say now...
@taz_dolly (93)
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17 Nov 10
If you are not angry that the one who feel for you that you are not human. Forgiveness is many thinking before you do that.And forgiveness is the one who deserve it you know what i am saying .If you feel he or she deserve second chance why not if not then move on
@nirvik12345 (66)
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17 Nov 10
I don't want to give him a second chance. I want to forgive him because i want to forget him. I think he is not believable.
@joysantos (131)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
Most of the time, we already learn how to forgive someone. But our pride held us back to really forgive them.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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17 Nov 10
Yes. If i forgive him, then i become a kindhearted and good person. Which help him, to think about what he do. And other all, respect me more.
And it also help me to forget him.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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17 Nov 10
Yes. You are absolutely right. But, here the question is that "May I forgive that person who jealous me and try to break my steady relationship?"
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
17 Nov 10
One is not obliged or forced to forgive someone when the pain or hurt is still fresh. But forgiving is easy when you are ready to move on and want to ease the pain. It is that forgiving that keeps the heart free from guilt feelings. Of course, when you forgive that person, the next question is can you forget what he/she did to you? That is tougher to do.
Take some time to ease the pain and forgive when you are ready.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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17 Nov 10
Yes maean. But i try to forget all the things what he do. And also i want forget him. That's why i want to forgive him. I believe that, if i don't forgive him then i can't forget him. Every time it gives me pain.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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17 Nov 10
I think you are right. If i don't forgive his then whole life i can remember him. It irritate me in whole life. So i think forgive him is the best.
@mollu2508 (47)
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17 Nov 10
Forgiveness is showing how much you are kindhearted, and also it adding a test to your personality. sometime what happens any silly kind of thing can be a reason of the misunderstandings, then you can think that he/she is a cheater but you have find out all the reasons behind it. Personally I'm having a experience on that that was not a misunderstanding , but then my girlfriend has left me for another person she declares she love some body else. i let her free straightway, but i tried to know the reason many time, but they start avoid me. but i was too determinate with my love & believe so i promise her i will wait for her & i will forgive her if she realize her fault & again love me properly again with all her love...
usually I'm a person who used to forgive others... so i forgive her & i get back her love again..
but i believe that Believe or Trust is every thing, & i live in the trust, if some one again and again hurts the trust then i also not forgive the person....
