Love ?? Before Marriage OR After Marriage ;)

I like LOVE after marriage is best for me. I am married man and love with my wife only after marriage.

Wait, so he was in love with his girlfriend and then he married a different woman? Why?

i don't believe in first love. i believe in love at first sight. love can be done anywhere, any time

Men can never forget their first love and will always remember it. Women will adjust and try to forget. They will never let the past interfere in the present relation, but men can never forget and will always crave for the first love. They say time is the medicine for all. But I have seen that men never forget their love even after 30-40 years.

Men are often attracted to things they can't lay their hands on. The harder it is for them to get it, the more they want it. It's the 'ungettable' feeling that tempts men and makes women so desirable. Your friend is just the same, going after something while not knowing how to cherish what's in front or next to him. He's bound to regret someday.

It has to be present both, a relationship cannot forego in the absence of that..

Love before or after marriage? This is a very confusing question, most people get married because they love someone, you don't get married then fall in love later. Why would anyone get married to someone they don't love? Makes no sense to me.

I really think you are confusing love and lust here. True lust can be a powerful thing, but love is about respect. And if he respected his wife he would not be so ate up with lust over his old flame, he would be finding out ways to have that kind of flame with his wife. Love is really a JOB, where as lust is something that knocks you off your feet and into the bedroom. Lust is good in a marriage, but love is more important and it needs to be worked on to get there. I feel really bad for your friend's wife who is not getting the respect she deserves in her marriage. If he can't stop thinking with his man part I suggest she look for someone who doesn't let that appendage lead his thoughts.

i have heard some stories where the couple got married without love but later on fell intimately in love. i think what matters the most is how to keep each other interested. but in my case i would prefer to have love before marriage.

Well I can never marry someone whom I do not love as I also could not bring myself to touch or kiss that person unless if it comes from my heart with love. So I only want to be with the person I have feeling with, otherwise I will not be with anyone at all and just be single until I found the person I can love and can love me for the way I am

Isn't it love that moves you to get married? Usually it's like that. You want to marry a person because you love him/her. It's love, that's why you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. But if your situation is something like arranged marriage, and you loved your wife after the marriage, that's good for you. But it's very crucial to not love your wife before marriage. Or should I say don't marry the person if you don't love him/her. Because you'll both suffer.