Conversation topic of lovers

I can honestly say that I genuinely do not understand why people have this problem. Things happen in our lives every single day. There is news, debate topic, new information, happenings with friends and family, new books, new movies, new television shows. I've been with my husband for about 7 years and I have never been at a lost for conversation.

It is true that in the initial days there is lot to talk. Talk about day to day activities besides that there is lot to talk about interests, hobbies etc. There were days when my husband and myself used to speak for hours over phone before our wedding. We were committed to each other for 3 years before marriage. But now that we are married and are staying together, we have come to a stage where in we enjoy each other's company. We are usualy back late in the evening after our office. Not more than 2 or 3 hours to speak before we sleep, we speak about each other's activities in the office. Today we dont have to talk to enjoy each other's company, just the presence of him itself is great. He mostly brings back his office work home so sits with his laptop and I have no problems with it. Your love becomes more matured where in the bubbly and flowery things that are present in the initial stages dont seem any attractive. Just my few cents. :)

Well... It's very dificult to understand the meaning and result of the conversation which take place between two lover. In my country there is a saying which say that "Understanding the talk which take place between two lover or two mad person isn't possible, even they also can't recall after some time and don't get any result". So better to leave thinking about the talk which take place there, even when you will also have one lover you will find it true ... Thanks...

sometimes yes not much perhaps but when eyes and body language talk they have so much to talk about that the world doesn't understand except for the two love birds..but there are some whose sharing what they like and don't like. plans... future past and present but what matters is what relationship they have and how to work it out without having conflict.

Hi.. Daren, I think lovers are not need any to for the discussion. some time we feel like the we have nothing to say, all of the words are finished, we guys the walking silently, seeing each other from the long time, or when they are in call after a few minute the become silent. but remember silence has a lot of words to express if you feel romantic... if some time you really feels bore the you start flirt.... then your partner is also becomes happy... i used to do that... :)

Some of lovers are in this type of silly problems,they think about many things but when they are in front of their lover then forget all of topics...but i can discuss any topic with my lover in phone or face to face...just like-eating,music,about college,family,personal feelings etc....what's your topics???

Hmmmm! I think, that is another challenge to deal with. I am living in with my bf right now, since we are always together, I think we ran out of topics to discuss about. However, I think we are not on that, it is just that one of us does not want to discuss about something. I know that there are still many things to discuss, say the future, goals, plans. The only problem is when he avoids to talk it out. We can also discuss things like what you hate about me today or yesterday or vise versa. I know that is a nice idea with no intent to argue about it, rather because you both know what made you feel bad and letting him know as well. That topic is a good one for you to be open with each other. Another, discuss not only the happy ones. You can also converse on the sad one because it is more comforting when you feel the concern from your love.

This is a common problem with couples, but there is a way around it. During the time when you're not together and something happens to you, though however petty, make a mental note to remember it and tell the story to your partner. A lot of silly side stories about what happened to you during the day will trigger something from your partner's memory, and before you know it, you've talked about a lot of things. Also, what my bf and I do sometimes is to just keep quiet. We're each doing something else, like playing different computer games. Whenever something happens on the game, we tell each other. You could also play an online game together, so you could discuss the game everyday. Finding a common hobby that both of you can do separately is great. It paves the way to conversation.

Well I have been with my partner for 5 years and we are not always living together but we do talk to each other every single day because we believe communication is one of the most important thing in a relationship. I'm a very talkative person while my partner is not, but he's always happy that I'm a bubbly person, otherwise if I was just as quite as he is, then our relationship would have become a disaster long ago. I always find something to talk about and we often end up debating about a lot of things and our favourite one is Science topic, we usually will have a very hot interesting and funny debate about this one. That is how I keep him interested to keep talking LOL, he loves all that kind of thing. And I know if I start a conversation about football, he's the one who will not stop talking about it. Whenever we feel like we have nothing to talk about anymore, then we will ask each other if we fancy to play games, especially when we are talking to each other using Skype video call which you can play games on it with the person you are on call with. Have a nice day

We don't run out of things to discuss because life is a never ending story. Blessings and challenges are non-stop so these are enough reasons for you to talk about. Except if you find him/her uninteresting to talk with or vice versa.