In love do you prefer women start first or men start first?

@Freezole (246)
Malaysia
November 18, 2010 7:58am CST
What do you think about this? should women play the part first or should men start it. i just ask this question because i got lack of confidence to begin the relationship. the other question is how we gonna start the relationship? please show me the way. thank you.
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6 responses
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
In this age, it no longer mattered who started who, as long as you really love the person, you go ahead and say what you feel. Be honest not only with the one you like or love but to your self as well. I think it is better to confront, face or express your feelings or forever, you will regret passing the opportunity. I hope I am clear with my answer, good luck to you Freezole! Cheers!
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 10
Thank you so much..I'll consider the suggestion you just share with me. maybe i should start with wink first, what do you think? Cheers!
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
You are most welcome, friend! Lol, yeah, you can start by winking at her, then by charming her all the way to her heart... Like giving flowers, chocolates, etc...Cheers!
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 10
I think giving flowers, chocolates it little bit too much because i just begin to know her..maybe later after i get some feedback from her. Cheers!!
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
Starting a relationship is simple. Once you've proved to yourself that you are indeed in love with the girl, ask her out on a date. See if everything works out. Just be yourself. Don't lie to her, just put your best foot forward. If everything turns out fine, you'll get a 2nd and a 3rd and so on.
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 10
I never thought it simple as that, i should try this. thanks a lot Frontvisions101. Have a nice days.
@kguru1979 (381)
• India
18 Nov 10
Usually who is strong in their mind will first start expressing love to the other. It is not depending on the gender and is purely based on the strength of love in their mind.
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 10
too general but is okay..so it doesn't matter who start first then i wonder how things going to happen if i just wait for the girl start first. Anyway thank you so much Kguru1979..have a nice days.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
18 Nov 10
I have always believed it to be more romantic when the man makes the first move. I don't want to come off as aggressive with a man until he has made the first move in the relationship. After that, anything goes.
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 10
There suppose to be like that but in my case i would prefer women start first like giving some sign to make me act to the relationship..actually, the confidence things still block my act.
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
We are in the modern culture right now and somehow we have adopted it from the West. Women should also be assertive in getting what we want so we should really do whatever it takes to do so. If we want to start it with a guy then there is nothing wrong giving up some motives of intention to get their attention right? I do not say that we should flirt in a very lousy manner but giving up some hints like a great eye contact with a great smile and very warm "hi" or "hello" will do. If the guy missed the chance to respond accordingly then it is not our loss. Maybe that guy is already taken so lets not push it from there. Thank you for this nice topic.
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 10
I am truly agree with you..intention to get their attention is really matter if this don't exist there will be no relationship between them. as precaution we should not expect this relation going as we planned. Anyway thanks so much for you nice comment in here.
• Mauritius
18 Nov 10
Being old-fashioned, i'd rather the guy make the first step! :P but that is only my taste.. I like men who make the first step!
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 10
okay then being old-fashioned is little bit difficult for me..but I'll try..maybe i should start with wink first. Anyway thank you a lot 22Katie22..wish me luck okay..have a nice days and good luck to you too.