Would you wake people up?

Sleeping in plain sight - sleeping during lectures
@bounce58 (17385)
Canada
November 18, 2010 3:40pm CST
I just raised a discussion about attending a classroom lecture where people’s minds check out. Some people in the audience/class even took it a step further by actually dozing off while the lecture was going on. Now, if you happen to sit beside somebody sleeping, who’s in plain view of the teacher/lecturer, would you wake him or her up? Would you give them a nudge? How about if he/she started snoring? Or would you move seats away from them?
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
19 Nov 10
No, probably not. I saw this kind of thing A LOT and sometimes actually contributed to it during lecture classes in my first year of college. A lot of college kids are just on scholarship and don't care - why go out of my way to wake them up? Yeah, I might be a little bitter and mean - but they made the choice to fall asleep in class (OR they made the choice to stay up at a frat party until 4 am and therefore put themselves in a position to have been deprived of sleep), so I say, whatever. Plus, it's not like high school - where you would actually get yelled at by the teacher. The auditoriums are huge, at least at the U of M, and no one ever calls you out for - talking on your phone, texting, "passing notes", sleeping, going on Facebook on your laptop all throughout the ordeal, etc. I feel bad for them though - because at least with some of the classes I've taken, a lot of the test material comes out of what they talk about during the lecture. Oh well! You snooze, you lose. LOL
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
It's true that in a class/auditorium setting, some of the students have already made their choice of being deprived of sleep by attending frat parties the night before. Guilty! That's me! But the good thing about being in a fraternity back then, is that the brothers would give you hand outs of the lectures from past years which makes listening not really necessary. Some may only be there for attendance.
• United States
19 Nov 10
I don't think I would. I wouldn't wake them up at all, and I wouldn't move away from them unless they were doing something to distract me from the lecture (snoring, falling on me, drooling...). It's everyone's personal responsibility to keep focused and be aware of their surroundings. Unless there was something potentially dangerous going on in the class, I wouldn't wake up the person because they should be aware of the consequences of their actions. There are times when we all get tired in class and might doze, but if we miss something because of that, or get in trouble, that's life.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
I guess you could say that, that is their business. That if they miss a particular lesson or learning because they dozed off, it's their consequence to face. And you're right that we don't have to get in the middle of that by waking them up. Unless of course they are attracting too much attention, like snoring! Thanks.
• United States
19 Nov 10
If they are a friend, Hell yes. If they are an enemy Hell No! In fact if they were an enemy I would get sneaky and try to get the lecturer see that they are sleeping . If I don't even know the person , I wouldn't do a thing. I am evil no?
• United States
23 Nov 10
Sneaky? I am not sure now! I think I would just make eye contact with the lecture and motion to Sleeping " beauty"
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Haha! I would like to see that! On how you get sneaky, and get that sleeping person noticed by the lecturer. And I would like to witness what the reaction of the speaker is, or how the sleeper would squirm in his or her pants after waking up.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Nov 10
I know that this might not sound like the nicest thing in the world, but I will say that I would most likely let the person sleep instead of nudging them or waking them up. The reason that I would be that way is because of the fact that if they are sleeping during a lecture they have to be pretty tired. If you've ever fallen asleep in a lecture hall, you will find that it is the most uncomfortable sleeping situation that you will ever experience.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
I guess some are just as you say, very tired. But I've known some people who just can't help themselves (me ), and fall asleep. Specially if the speaker talks in a very monotonous tone. Or the topic isn't really that interesting. It could be uncomfortable, but if it is really conducive to sleeping, you might just find a few. If they don't get caught by the speaker, I'm sure they would appreciate that you let them sleep.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
Of course i would...I'd definitely give him or her a nudge before he or she will start snoring. i think that would be the right thing to do. I wouldn't stop until he or she is awake and stays awake..
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
But what if he or she would have an unexpected reaction? Like make a lot of noise that will draw the attention of the teacher/speaker? Or worse, the attention of the whole class? That'll be embarassing! Anyway, thanks.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I wouldn't be embarrassed, he or she is the one sleeping anyway. I am just trying to help..
@jamuls (530)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
if that person is a very close friend then i would report him to the teacher. lol! seriously, even if i dont know the guy (assuming it's a guy) i would wake him up quietly to avoid some problems and further embarrassment.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hello jamuls. But what if he would have a loud or unexpected reaction? That would draw the attention your way. Not only of the teacher or speaker, but of the whole class. That would be a little bit embarassing. And a little problematic.
@jamuls (530)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
theeeeeen... it's out of my hands. i did my part. he was the one who fell asleep, not me. lol!
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
19 Nov 10
I will try to do this without diverting the lecturer's attention upon us. Difficult task, as the other person's reaction can't be guaranteed as well. Hmm...
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
That's what I'm thinking. You've got to do it very discretely. Without attracting attention of the speaker, or the whole class. Because any unexpected reaction could be a little bit embarassing. Thanks.
• United States
19 Nov 10
definitely wake them up. I wouldnt want the teacher eyeballing me either. http://www.zazzle.com/guitarist7
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Hello goldenapple951. When the teacher already starts eyeballing, then it is definitely too late! I'm sure he's already seen the person sleeping, and just maybe deciding what to do about it. Thanks.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
A pleasant day to you Bounce58, With reference to that, I wont wake him or her. For the reason, maybe he or she just needs a little time to take a nap just to lessen his or her sleepy feeling. However, if he or she wants to sleep for a couple of time, maybe I will just ask an excuse to the teacher/lecturer that, my seatmate needs to rest for a while and maybe I will ask a nurse or doctor to bring him or her inside a clinic.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hello airasheila. Thank you for your honest response. But instead of making it discrete, I'm afraid you'll make a big deal out of the person sleeping. And I'm not sure if he or she will appreciate that. In any case, I know you have good intentions. I just hope he or she will understand it.
• India
19 Nov 10
Well i would want to sleep myself also because that shows how interesting the lecture is going on tonight right? But i would wait and see the fun if i know the teacher too well. If i didn't i would nudge them and wake them up if necessary. Cheers!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Well, you are a good friend. Haha! But not to the sleeping person, you're a good friend to the teacher. For subjecting him through catching a sleeping person in the class. Good one! Thanks.
@anneish (117)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
if needed...yes i would.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hello anneish. But what would that instance be that you would say that you need to wake her or him up? It'll be great if you could expound on your answer.
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
If that person is my friend I would definitely nudge or wake him or her up. However, if I'm not familiar with the person at all, even if that person has been my classmate for several months, I would never bother to do that even if he or she is snoring. Yes, I would feel annoyed but I would leave it to the teacher to do the waking up for me.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
I would agree that if he or she was not your friend, then it is up to the teacher to wake him or her up. The disrespect that happens by dozing off while the lecture is going on is between the speaker and the one sleeping. You're right not to get in between that. Unless of course, it was a friend. Thanks.
@arkhan099 (110)
• Pakistan
19 Nov 10
i would definitely give them a nudge,moving away from the person seems a little harsh .i mean come on he/she fell asleep knowing you were sitting next to them ,their going to want to know where you went and why you didn't try to wake them up ,you may as well be prepared.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Hello arkhan099. That seems like a lot of responsibility for just sitting beside a person who fell asleep. But if he or she were a friend, then maybe I would wake him/her up, so as not to be embarassed by teacher/speaker if they are caught. Thanks.
• United States
19 Nov 10
This is annoying, but I feel waking them up will only get myself in trouble. If I woke my brother up because he snores, he would make a big fuss about it. It would then travel to my parents bed room making me more receptive toward punishment. Getting away from it is the best option, as I would go to a room far away from his. There is a surgery that can be done to cure snoring, and it has helped my dad significantly.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Haha! You've actually brought the discussion a step further rovered777. I think it would bring attention if you woke somebody up, and therefore more receptive to punishment. But, it could also be embarassing if it were in class. Specially if the one sleeping was actually your brother! Thanks anyway.
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
I'd wake him up. If gets angry at me i'll knock him out. It's about the same only this time his nose will be bleeding.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Hello frontvisions101. But what if it was girl? Like a pretty lady. Would you still knock her out if she gets angry? Thanks.
• United States
18 Nov 10
Personally I would not wake up the person, instead I would move seats. I find that each of us are responsible of how we behave in a meeting and or class so this is the person's responsibility for making sure they pay attention in class. I feel that by waking them up they sure at an instance would not remember where they are at and perhaps give out a scream and or throw something out of being startled.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Yes! And that would just draw unnecessary attention to the general direction of where we are seated. Not only from the teacher/speaker, but also from the rest of the class. So, I would move too. And let him or her deal with the consequence if he or she does get caught sleeping.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
18 Nov 10
No. "Let a sleeping dog lie". "Don't poke the bear". These and many other sayings are said for obvious reasons. Sorry
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
Hello 2004cqui. So, from these sayings, we could definitely say that people who sleep through lectures are either dogs or bears! Thanks for the response.