Photos becomes important memories
By iwrite
@iwrite (5034)
Singapore
November 18, 2010 7:37pm CST
I wonder how people always take things for granted, and often think that there is always tomorrow. Sometimes in life you would find that there would be not more tomorrow.
You see my family always gather during holidays and during this holidays we tend to take lots of pictures, so much that you do not think much about it. That is until one of the members could and would not longer be there to take it with you. Then you would start searching for them.
Treasure all your photos and memories, for when life takes an expected turn or even if it was expected, it might not be so easy to accept.
Grandma we will all miss you.
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@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
19 Nov 10
ElicBxn,
When a close one departs, I guess it is hard to bare. Even for my Granny who is 82 and at time we are prepare for her to go. However when the time comes we still hope that that would be another xmas, or a new year or a birthday we could celebrate with her. I guess from now on the gatherings would be of memories of her, I wish my daughter would be able to have some memories of her when she grows up.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
19 Nov 10
awww, your Granny was younger than my mom, so I guess your mom is about my age (mid to late 50's)
the kicker is that my roomie's folks (who are in their early 70's) already have great-grands... and the children having children are the children of their YOUNGEST!
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
I understand how it feels, and you are right. Actually since then that I lost a friend I started to find photos of her and keep it on my files. I even printed it. I do not feel any goosebumps looking at her as she is the most beautiful girl i had ever seen. She is so much treasured by the people who love her. For this reason, it is important to save pictures as it is the only memory that lives when one passed on this earth. How sad it is.
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@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
19 Nov 10
Yes, because pictures are worth a thousand words. You can tell so many stories with a picture. When I get my picture with Stan Lee, that will be a story that I will tell my children for generations to come. (By the way, I have met Stan Lee several times, but have yet to get a picture with him, but I will one of these days).
@thuynhu (661)
• United States
19 Nov 10
Yeah, I know what you mean. I take so many pictures and people always tell me that I take too many. I never thought so. I enjoy seeing the different pictures that I have. And nowadays people just have pictures on their phones or on their computers. So I've been taking my memory card to Walmart and getting my pictures developed because a hard copy of the photos always seem more special. I like to make little scrap books. And I'm starting one of my daughter as she is growing up.
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@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
I believe you - we have to treasure the memories while we can. Digital days had made the picture-taking so easy that I have to admit my family have been addicted to until such time that we got tired of taking pictures and just leave the camera in its case somewhere and forgot to take pictures on some occasions.
Well, we live only once. So we might as well take the most out of it. You'll never know when's the last time you'll see each other so cherish the moment and take as much pictures while you can!
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
28 Nov 10
That is so true..our family always gathers for the holidays too, we were just together on Thanksgiving, and of course the cameras were flashing all over the place. We took a group photo of everyone that was there, and as I look at it, I do notice all the family members that were missing, the ones who are no longer with us, they are truly missed. Yes, we need to cherish those memories that we have, and to also make new memories, as we do every year.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
28 Nov 10
i take photos when ever i can and feel up to it.. im a very visual person and sometimes my memory is really bad so its a way of knowing i wont forget that moment because ill remember it when i see the picture later
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@celticeagle (166777)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Nov 10
I have several boxes full of alot of albums. Pictures of my grandparents, mom and dad and my kids. That includes my grand and great grandkids. Alot of fun pictures that I hope to hand down to my grandkids when the time comes. I always people who have just had kids to take plenty of pictures, that kids grow fast.
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@celticeagle (166777)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Nov 10
I have some very fond memories of grand and great kids and of my own childhood.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
19 Nov 10
You're so wise in saying that. I have unfortunately been experiencing less people on holidays for the last four years. Recently, there have been about one a year and this year two. We have always taken lots of pictures, and we have also taken a few videos.
I think that way also about my new grandson who will be 10 months this weekend. It doesn't seem possible that he's trying to talk and walk and has teeth now. I told my daughter this morning that it's like I'm trying to soak in every second with him, because he's changing and growing so fast.
I have a digital camera and video camera that I keep very close, and I take pictures and videos of him constantly for that reason.
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@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 10
Hi Iwrite!.
Its so sweet if you still miss your Grandma. Sometimes I miss my grandma too, she pass way when I was in 5 grade at elementary school. My dads was really sad because he loves her mom dearly and thats the first time I see my dad crying.
My grandma is really a loving person he will hugs us really close when me met and she made you know how she love you very much. We don't have many picture of her but we had several thats remain us of her including her painting in our house.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 10
I think we need to accept our lost, even at first it will be really hard but believe me, there is a time thats you will hear thats song and you will smile because you remember good memory with your grandma.
I think when I realize that someone die its remind me how fragile life is and we can not predict it. Its teach me to love the people around me because I never know if they still here the next day.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
19 Nov 10
Sorry to hear that your grandma has passed. This is something I have thought about immediately after the birth of my kids and I do not wait until holidays to take pictures. I carry a camera in my purse daily and I am one who owns more photo albums than I think more than the normal.
As one day after I am gone I have literally assigned all my pics to my daughter as I know she will treasure more than anyone I know. Although my son is loving and caring, somehow I feel my daughter will continue my ritual of treasuring every blessed moment as I did.
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@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
19 Nov 10
hardworkinggurl
Well I guess we were prepare for the day to come as she was in the hospital for 2 months. However it is still sad when she pass on, at a time when the holidays, xmas. new year are so close and my sisters wedding too.
I think you are doing well to get the pictures taken, I hope it holds all your memory. As for your son I guess it would come a time when he start taking too. My daughter like to take photos, she is only 3 but we are going to get a camera for her.
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@stylewaves (1060)
• India
19 Nov 10
Yeah you are absolutely correct , photos really hold up good memories that can give us very good feelings
@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
19 Nov 10
stylewaves
I guess that is no real substitute, however lacking a better solution, I guess videos and photos are the best we are able to get. Perhaps one day, we could really have an invention to speak to the departed, like Edison once thought. However now that is all that we have.
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@preppydezza (309)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Photos are forever. That's the reason why I love taking photos especially on occasions. Fun, happy and sad memories would not look more vivid if there were no photos. It is a treasure that we will keep forever. And when you go back, look at it again, its like you are walking in memory lane and you will just realize how beautiful life is.
@abbey19 (3106)
• Gold Coast, Australia
21 Nov 10
Sorry to hear about your Grandma.
I have always been one to carry my camera wherever I go, ready to capture that special moment!
By capturing a special place or person on camera, a memory is made, and one that will last forever. Yes, a photograph is a valuable commodity, a treasure to keep, and history in the making.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
19 Nov 10
I agree with you. Nowadays, it may seem old fashioned, but I still put photos in albums!I also put a lot on disk and in the computer. There are so many ways to keep memories.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Nov 10
I totally agree w/u. The pictures i have of my grandparents are treasures. Happy weekend to u.
@verabear (796)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
I agree, with the advent of digital photography, we have more photos now than we used to. Still, we tend to take those photos for granted. They are really treasures that will prove to be more valuable as time goes on and we grow old or witness the passing of beloved friends and family members.
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
19 Nov 10
True enough, we do take tomorrow for granted and our loved ones too.
I too have lost loved ones and lived thru holidays without people I loved and wished I'd paid more attention.
You are right. Treat all with the fact they or you may not be here for the next holiday.
But, remember too, with thoughts of tomorrows, there is hope.
@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
23 Nov 10
quita88
Well with the holidays so close you wished she would be around for a while longer, however she was also suffering inside the ICU. Your heart is asking for her to hand on and your head asking her to let go and not suffer anymore. It is a conflict that I could not start to comprehend.
Now it has all pass, I wonder if I have ask for the right thing, would she be around if my head have not harbour those thoughts? Would she have recovered?
While I try to tell the rest of my family that is probably the best for her, but inside me there is doubt. Sadness still do surface from time to time, however I hope that she is now happy and free from suffering.
@wealthymouli (710)
• India
21 Nov 10
It is true iWrite. I am taking photos from my teen age, with a black and white film i started taking photos. Now i am having few thousands of them. Most of which i have recently digitalised. and kept in a DVD. It also tells us how we were, what were the fashion we maintained that time etc. its a nice habit and thanks for starting this thread.
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