How will you know if your ex still loves you?

Philippines
November 18, 2010 8:47pm CST
If you have a bf or gf and you are together for a long time then suddenly he or she want to stop your relationship or want to break you up for no reason then suddenly as time goes by he/she wants to go make up with you. How will you know that this time he truly loves you and not hurt you again.
8 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
you can feel it with the use of your heart, sometimes they show cares, thoughtfulness to you. and he/she still communicate to you. but still dont fall in love very fast, think why he/she still communicating or why he/she still have cares for you,analyze the situation and then decide.
• China
20 Nov 10
In my opinion ,no matter wether he mean it or not,you shouldn't make up with him!you know it's him who dumped you before and with no reason,how could he ask to make up with you!the past is the past,you can't pick it up!
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
There is no point of still knowing if my ex still loves me or not anymore. He is already my ex so I have to move forward whether it be my decision breaking up or his I would really care less if he still loves me.
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
ahm..she was texting me, calling, and etc!
• United States
19 Nov 10
Wouldn't think about them, and would avoid asking myself this question. My ex is not worth my effort thinking about, and she or I parted because of a reason. There isn't anything in the world that would be better than leaving our separate ways. Even if she has doubts of love for me, I would trap myself in a 5 foot cement dome just to be away from her. She doesn't deserve to love me again as its not within her.
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
Hi amora123! If your ex want to make up with you, and he was the one who broke up the relationship before then that would mean your ex still has feelings for you, he might be missing you that's why he's keeping in touch with you right now. But, it does not mean that your ex really loves you, remember he was the one who ended the relationship, right? What I mean, is that you should be wary this time, do not trust easily, you will need to test his motives and see if he's worthy of your feelings as well. The question is, do you still love your ex? That would be a complete different story... Cheers! :-)
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
Hi there! You will knew that your bf/gf loves you honestly this time if he or she stands the test of time when you gave him/her series of tests for you to know that hes/shes really serious to make amends with you this moment and make your relationship better this days. Let him/her feel that you got hurt and that ask him/her if hes/shes willing to wait for you to see if he/she really wanted to continue your relationship. Ask him/her to be the best person he/she could be in the process, and you determine if he/she really doing his/her job. Then, decise for yourself whether he/she follows you. Have a nice morning!
@ithek15 (143)
• Philippines
19 Nov 10
i dont know,, maybe if hes keeping in touch with you,, i just dont know,, i guest ,,only guest,, that happen that to me,,,