Step-Parents

I understand what you say MySpot a wonderful man came into my life when My three girls were just grade school and one wasn't even in school yet and in about 12 more days we will be married 27 yrs. The stepdad was everything my first husband was not ,seeing the first husband was a drunk and very abusive,I feared for my three girls cause I knew if in the event anything happened to me ,what would happen to my children,well to make a very long story short the step dad in this story are far and few between. I think I was very lucky to find a man to take the whole package.

My parents got divorced when I was 3 years old. At the young age of 4 I met my stepdad. He loved my like his own and took care of me. My mother always had to beg my real dad to come and take me for the weekends, but there were issues only he could understand. Time came and time left and I never got to know my real dad. 20 years later I phoned my real dad and said "Dad, I still need you" Since that phone call we became friends and then like father and daughter. Sometimes people have real issues, and if only one, one person, would make the effort. Those few words can change your whole life. Sometimes you have to put your pride asside and take a deep breath and this will make you a better person. And if you are lucky it will make the other person also a better person, because you are setting an example.

I'm really glad that you've got such a wonderful step dad. My step dad is odd. My mom and him should never had married (for his sake not hers). They live in 2 different states and haven't you know what in like four years. I had a step mom (who is still dating my dad) who had an abortion and lied about why she did it. I can't forgive her for it. But I gave it to God. She had the abortion about 2 weeks before one of my many miscarriages.