Is love "Pain" or "Feelings" or "Attraction" or something new to you???

To me its A attraction first what i felt for, then got feel for her and now it painful it sound funny but its my story though....

Love is a conviction, when you convince yourself that you love someone it convicts you and you serve a sentence living with that person for life.

I think all these things are nice but love is a tender respect for another person. In these remarks from others I see the connection they feel but not true ongoing feeling for one another. Warm feeling, an undying respect. All of that. It is said that love is caring more about another person than you do for yourself.

Hi Ritmon, Love is a very serious emotions. Some it will allow you to feel pain, which hopefully will allow us to grow by learning from our previous mistakes. Love is not the attraction. The attraction is what draws us to another person in the first place, therefore attraction in the passion, which is the first to come and the first to leave in a relationship. When a person is very young, they mistake passion/attraction for love, which surely will bring pain. When the passion seizes to exist there is nothing else left because love or commitment was never there from the beginning. In oder for a relationship to survive, it should have at least three components: passion/attraction, intimacy/love, and commitment to each other; commitment being the most important. When a couple commits to stay together and work things out the relationship can survive.

Love for me is a wonderful and powerful feeling for someone. The more you fight it and ignore it, the more it gets stronger. The more you show it, the more it grows. You know you can get hurt but you still fall for it. You do stupid things you can't imagine doing for someone. You even fall for someone far from your expectations. Anyone can feel it. No one is excused. That's love for me.

love is a final homogeneous mixture of four feelings - 1. liking, 2. respect, 3. belief, 4. attraction. the process of falling in love may start with any one of the four feelings but a feeling can not be said LOVE until all the four feelings are there. if a relationship lacks any one of the four feeling it is not love, it is some thing else like relation of student and teacher. a student likes, respects & has belief in the teacher but not attracted that way so this is not the feeling of love.

When a person is in love, they are lost in the world of fantasy and can't judge their feelings. When you're young (and even when you're old), these feelings can be confusing. They can be overwhelming. They can be exhausting. But they are all perfectly normal.

Love is when you feel only for that person more than you feel for yourself. Love can also make you protect another person because you want to keep them safe. I don't think that kids know what romantic love is but they can witness it between their parents and know what healthy relationship should be.

Love for me will always mean feelings. Some are feelings that are easy to express and give joy. Some love will be feelings of something much stronger. Pain and attraction just might be something that is mixed in feelings of love.

Hi Ritmon, love is a like a sweet pain and a strong emotion too. Those are happy feelings which can't be described of course for me a new to me what i am feeling now a days, but some thing it gives much pleasure to the heart. I noticed it makes us some what happy all the time. Expressing love to some one is also an art but to some people it can't. Example our parents, family members, children and our friends also mostly our partners. Daily we can't say them that i love you but their expression and the care towards us shows how much they are loving us. If a person can understand those feelings is enough to have a successful and great relationship among them or between them. Have a wonderful day/night.

for a sixteen years old boy like me. it is when you accept the person though whatever may happen. Pain is now knew to me anymore and I've learned that it should be not taken so hard anymore. I used to cry a lot but now, I'm trying not to anymore because there's really nothing I can get from that, and if I don't want to cry again, better find someone who can accept me and can last for ever relationship. Feelings, they do exist but they also get lost. Attraction, still experiencing it and it is really hard to accept that when the person you're attracted to doesn't like you anymore.

Love should not truly be painful, although circumstances in life causes love to emit pain. For me love is a feeling and caring of another person to me.