Does the idea behind "The Secret" really work?

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
November 20, 2010 10:41am CST
Robert Collier once said that if you see yourself as prosperous, you will be. If you see yourself as continually hard up, that is exactly what you will be. It seems that every spiritual book in the last sixty or more years has the same message. Live the reality you wish to experience, beginning now. We should not only see ourselves as prosperous but we must act that way and it will happen. This of course is the idea behind "The secret", but does it really work? Have you or anyone you know acted on these teaching and has it worked?
11 responses
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
21 Nov 10
Hi Pose123, I have not read or heard about "The Secret," but I still believe that positive thinking and action will bring positive results. When I am in need of financial breaks, I give. For I believe if I give a little of what I have, then it will, and it usually does, come back to me. However, I have not won the lottery or Publishers sweepstakes; I do believe that one day,I will win. I see myself prosperous.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi Angelgirl, Thank you for your comment and I agree.Giving sends the message that we already have enough and to spare. Religion uses it to encourage people to pay ten percent of their income to the church. The concept does work but not just for giving to the church. Blessings.
• United States
26 Nov 10
I don't give just to the church; my ten percent sometimes go to the children's institutions. I know they need help as well.
@aidenw (632)
• United States
20 Nov 10
i believe the basic idea is correct.it's better to have a positive attitude than a negative one.however,many people have trouble applying it in their lives and make it work to their advantage.for me one of the hardest concepts to grasp is that if you start to doubt or even wonder if you will get the things you want or how you're going to get them then you're sending a message to the universe to cancel your order.it's human nature to have doubts and also the way we have been conditioned throughout our lives,and i believe that's why it's difficult to make it work the way you want it to.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi aidenw, Thank you for your response and I agree that we should always expect the best. A positive attitude is best for everyone. The secret of course goes beyond positive thinking and requires action. There are some for whom it has worked very well. When we stop and think about it, there is little wonder that only a few have seen it though. Most of us have been programmed, almost from birth, to believe certain things and many of these are negative. It is said that the first five or six years of our life are when we are most vulnerable to suggestion, so there is no wonder that there is so much negativity in the world. Blessings.
• Singapore
20 Nov 10
I understand where you are coming from. There are many times when we doubt ourselves, but I think the most important lesson here would be to have faith in whatever we do. Think the positive!
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
20 Nov 10
I believe this completely. I read the book "The Secret" and if you imagine it for yourself it could definitely happen for you. I imagined living in Puerto Rico but I first had to sell my home in New Mexico and I willed besides prayed alot to have it all happen in the time period that I wished for. I put my house up for sell and was lucky enough to sale it in this economy within 2 months and moved a month later to Puerto Rico. If you create in your mind what you want you can definitely achieve it with hard work, prays and alot of motivation. If I could do it anyone can. You have to really want it for yourself though.
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@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
20 Nov 10
That is such a great and inspirational story! Good for you and thanks for sharing the story with us :)
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi lelin, Thank you for sharing your experience and I'm pleased to know that it worked for you. Blessings.
• Mexico
21 Nov 10
Hi Pose: I think that there must be something truth in this statement, specially because I have noticed in my own life how positive things comes to me when I think in a positive way and at the same time, if I only think about the negative aspect of something, things seems to be more difficult than they really are and I can't find a solution. So I think that ideas are very important to build our future. ALVARO
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Nov 10
Hi starsailover, Thank you for responding and we agree. Blessings.
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
I really believe that the message of "The Secret" is true and it works. "Whatever the mind can believe, it can achieve". Our thoughts are the foundation of our actions. When my husband and I got married, we lived in a small apartment. We had our first child there but we said to ourselves, we don't want our child growing up in a sort of a cramped environment. I started cutting out pictures and collecting magazines about house architecture and decorations. I even made-up a 'dream board' on a picture frame. Indeed, the house that we visualized before, is now standing. We've been living here for about 6 years now. It has 4 bedrooms, ideal for me, my husband and 2 kids. Thanks to the power of visualization and positive thinking.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Nov 10
Hi hppiemomdiaries, Thank you for sharing your story and it is proof that to quote Claude Bristol, "what the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve". Positive thinking had to become positive action and we must continue to believe and visualize. Blessings.
• Indonesia
21 Nov 10
Perhaps yes. We see many accidents like that. If we have a strong desire about something, we'll got it. The doctrine is like we are what we think. I suggest that it's OK anyway. We can encourage ourselves by believing that. Though still we don't need to rely on that teachings too much.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Nov 10
Hi ivanmarginal, Thank you for responding. Blessings.
• Singapore
20 Nov 10
I have read The Secret, however I have not really used it consciously. I did once and the result was amazing. I attribute it to lots of positive attitude and faith that you deserve the object you are looking for. I have to use it more often.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi SydneyHazelton, Thank you for sharing your story and the fact that you say that the results were amazing,says it all. Blessings.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
20 Nov 10
I believe it comes down to this: What a person believes is often what they become. If you believe you are hard up, somehow you will try to make that happen. Example: Do you know of anyone who believes they are unhappy ever say they are happy??? It's all about choosing how we define ourselves. I will always be happy and successful. I choose not to be any other way. More is in our hands than people realize. THe choices are ours.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi bird, Thank you for that comment and I believe you are right, that more is in our hands than most people realize. We do determine our future but most people have not been programmed to think that way and we have all been programmed. Blessings.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
20 Nov 10
I have not read this book, to be honest, but I think I should, because I have several friends who have and they always rave about it. I am not sure it has improved their lives to be honest though.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi puccagirl, Thank you for commenting and I'm sure that a person has to do more than talk about it. It has to become a way of life. Blessings.
@mengle (5)
• United States
20 Nov 10
I've tried to use the secret many times with varying results
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Nov 10
Hi mengle, Thank you for your response. I think it is something that you have to follow through on and it can take time. Blessings.
• India
22 Jan 11
the LAW OF ATTRACTION that you attract whatever you focus your energy on (good or bad), works with relationships, possessions, goals, and anything else you are able to focus on ; even your own health,