what is that thing that make you lose interest in a boy/girl?^^

sweet love^^ - boy and girl in love^^
Portugal
November 20, 2010 5:31pm CST
hi guys^^ about me what makes me lose interest in a boy/girl is the fact that he is rude and not respectful. i dont like guys that want girls to do things always in their ways. also those that are not caring at all. for me good guys are those that are caring and sweet and worry with girls. and respect their opinions too and decide together what is the best. also i like guys that make me laugh so much^^ it really makes me fall into a guy. that way we always have a lot of things to talk about and never get bored what about you guys? what is that thing that make you lose interest in a boy/girl? please share^^
10 responses
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
22 Nov 10
I don't like ignorance and arrogance. A writer once said that "there is nothing more unattractive than an arrogant chick", somehow I remember these words and I feel the same. I like to respect the people the way they are so whenever I find such people I just leave them there way. I love to give and take respect. I like to try different fun ideas, and I love if the relation is light and refreshing. I don't like over attention, or when they try to put there hand in my other parts of life, except the relation we have with each other, at the same time I like to keep away from there other life matters.
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• Portugal
22 Nov 10
yes i understand that you dont like arrogant people. i also hate guys like that. i hate when those people look to people like they are inferior comparing to them. i dont do those kind of looks when i meet someone. thats a disrespect. im very happy that you are not like that and respect everyone. dont worry im sure you will find a sweet girl^^
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
being too much of a talker more than me is definite turn off. but sometimes he can get away with that as that can really be just a minor thing. one sure thing that will make me lose interest is his not showing of interest in me either.if he only knows about hmself but never takes time to meet my needs then that can really tick me off. i guess you said pretty much what is not to like.
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• Portugal
22 Nov 10
yes i understand^^ you dont want a guy that talks a lot and a lot ahah but as long as is only that is like you say you can accept that^^ sure a guy that doesnt show interest in you is normal that you dont want a guy like that. no one wants a guy that doesnt give us attention and love. but im happy that you dont have a bf like that. how is all with you? is already a few time we dont talk. how is everything?^^
• Mexico
21 Nov 10
Hi sweet love forever: In my case I usually lose my interest to a girl when it seems that she only thinks about herself and not about me and what I think. I also lose my interest when I'm in from of a person that doesn't respect my decitions and simply want to do what she wants. I don't like either the girls that act like "I'm the queen so you have to do all that I want" but in general I think that I prefer to look the positive things rather than the negative ones that would make me discuss in a relationship. ALVARO
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• Portugal
22 Nov 10
yes i understand^^ no guy wants a girl that is just ordering things around. everyone wants someone that has respect and that also listen to your opinions^^ is normal that you lose interest. anyway you are a sweet guy so i really wish that you find a sweet girl that respects you and loves you^^ you deserve to be very happy^^ wish you the best^^
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
well its when i started to like that boy but then again he do nothing for us to feel comfortable with each other becase many man says that im a girl of their dreams i dont even believe that maybe its just a kind of funny joke lol.
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• Portugal
22 Nov 10
sorry that when you start to like a guy then he changes his attitude. about many guys say that you are the girl of their dreams maybe thats true^^ that means that you are sweet and they like that in you. thats good that many boys tell you that im sure that you feel good with yourself^^ that just means that you are attractive and sweet^^
21 Nov 10
I am slightly put of with smoke, i don't like it at all but i would put up with it as it is my partners choice and i would not dictate what she can and cannot do. I guess more than anything though it is if i know or find out that my partner has lied to me, there is nothing worse than being lied to, it breaks the trust and that creates a bad relationship. Always best to be honest, that way you look at the positives in life. People who think of just themselves also irratate me, they should try thinking of others aswel.
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• Portugal
22 Nov 10
im happy that you would respect your lover^^ me too i hate the smell of smoke. but sure is always better to be honest. sure i dont like those that just care about what they want to do and dont care for others. im not like that. and sure if you lie it breaks the trust. you are right but we should always be honest with the person we are with.
• United States
22 Nov 10
for me its not having anything to talk about, or not listening to me, i mean i know people can't always have tons to say but when its to the point where they never have anything to say thats to much i need to find someone else to talk to.
• Portugal
22 Nov 10
yes sure if you have nothing to talk about with that person is really boring. and is a nonsense to be with someone like that. that means that you really dont like that person thats why dont have nothing to say to each other. we all need someone to talk with. we cant live without someone to talk to. even more a bf that we have nothing to talk about.
• Jamaica
21 Nov 10
the thing that makes me lose interest is when the person is boring. He just want to stay home and read or watch television all the time and is so not interested in doing any of the things i want to do.
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• Portugal
21 Nov 10
charmaine i understand you^^ is normal that you want to do things with him like go out together. or to the mall or the the beach or anything. just stay home always watching tv or reading sure is boring. but is good if you just watch a movie together or something. is good that both do what each others wants like one day he says lets watch a movie and you do that and when you say lets go to the beach that he goes also^^ understanding is very important.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
Well, for me I lose interest with bad attitude. Because good behavioral personality is one of the most important thing. Good behavior include caring, loving, respect, understanding, reasonable and faithful
• Portugal
21 Nov 10
yes i understand what you mean^^ you dont like girls that are rude or too spoiled right?^^ sure is normal that you like one that is sweet to you and that worries and is faithful sure^^ im sure that you can find it bcs you are a sweet guy. so you deserve a good girl like you also^^ i dont think that guys like girls with bad attitude but sweet ones.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Yup! I like girl that is sweet like you. I think your so sweet and very sweet girl? The problem with girl have a bad attitude it's always derailed the relationship that is why most of the relationship did not success due to bad behavior of someone else
• Portugal
24 Nov 10
thanks so much^^ yes im always a sweet girl when i love a guy but is sad that boys cant see that very clear yes girls with bad attitude i guess that can destroy a relation but is rare the girl that has a bad attitude. or at least is rare the guy that take spoiled rude girls. no one should take a girl like that. boys deserve respect.
• United States
20 Nov 10
My partner and I have to be on the same level, meeting eye to eye about pretty much about the same things. I do have a great relationship where we both pretty much want the same things in life. Sure we have a few oppositions, so I have to also admit that the love he emits, well he just gives in. LOL So definitely if we are not meeting eye to eye, by this I mean love, care, honor and respect. All in one package.
• Portugal
21 Nov 10
yes i understand you^^ you want someone that have common things with you. and that wants the same thing so that way can both fight for the same dreams^^ im very happy that he understands you^^ is great to have a guy like that. is good that he is a dream guy to you ahah but you deserve it bcs you love him and are good to him also
@ansi09 (151)
• Tunisia
21 Nov 10
Sometimes sweetloveforever a man or a woman fall in love with someone totally different from him/her in the way they think, this doesn't mean they can't get along together in a very healthy relation full of love & respect, it's just our personality sometimes what makes it so hard to us to get along with someone who doesn't share us same beliefs or thoughts. A couple need to take compromises sometimes so they keep the relation continue, am sure you know a couple or a friend or yours who's married or still in a relation with someone who is 90% differnet from him/her in the way he/she thinks, but they still love each other.
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• Portugal
21 Nov 10
you are right^^ i guess that that happens with almost all couples. is always better to have someone different than us. that way can teach more to each other and have more fun together. more activities to share. is good to have different tastes and show to the other that maybe later can like it too. as long as there is respect and understanding is all good^^