Why do men prefer voluptuous than slim woman?

@mayrah (1144)
United States
November 21, 2010 1:17am CST
When I asked my brother he told me he's eyes were usually catch by a pretty voluptuous lady than slender built. He just said he finds sexiness in fleshy woman rather than slim. Actually most men I have observed they really admire a little chubby or what you called voluptuous, they also said they are more huggable. Anyway personally I also prefer fleshy or chubby and tall man than slim built . How about you? which do you prefer voluptuous or slender built? Why?
11 responses
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
I also prefer women who are a bit on the chubby side. I don't know why. I just find 'em cute. :) I have nothing against skinny women though, I also admire women that are slim or who have an athletic body type. But yeah, I just find chubby women cuter. And yes.. very huggable. :)
• United States
22 Nov 10
I wouldn't agree. I think more guys look for girls that have nice bodies and are in shape. However, personality is the number one key to me. I want a girl that has good looks and has a good personality. She should be skinny and healthy. However, I have noticed that a lot of girls are fake and they just like to flirt and play mind games. There are probably a lot of girls that are real too. I guess it depends on the age and who you hang around.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
22 Nov 10
I wonder if there is a guy or guys out there who love morbid obese women like me? That is what I am and there are guys who won't even look at a woman with any extra weight on them! Some guys are very vain! Very vain but woman are like that,too! If I would find a man I would prefer a very good looking many over a man with extra weight! That ia what I like and always have!
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
21 Nov 10
I go for the slender women, however her actions mean the most. My favorite part are her EYES!! They are a window to the soul. Sure flash gets most men going but that's not what will keep one.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
It's all about the curves. Personally, It really doesn't matter if it's big or small as long as they still got the curves. If they still have it, then they are sexy to me.
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
I guess preference of curvy over slim (or the other way around) will really vary from guy to guy. If I were a guy I'd go for a curvy woman. I think skinny girls are too hard and bony. It's fun to have extra pockets of flesh (and fat even) to grab and cuddle, dontcha think? Plus yeah men are hardwired to go for more fertile-looking (read: wider hips) women. I myself prefer a guy to have a little fat round the belly. It makes him all the more huggable and cuddly lol. Plus will make a good comfy pillow in cases of emergency ;-p
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
21 Nov 10
Well, first and foremost I strongly prefer a tall man because I am tall. That is a feat in itself. After that, it doesn't matter so much to me. I don't want my man to be stick thin - I want him to look strong. I find what you say to be so funny because society makes us think that men want bony women. That's whats all over the tv and the magazines. But, I too, know quite a few men that are not attracted to skinny. They like what my culture calls "thick". If I were to put myself in a man's shoes I wouldn't go for skinny either ... I think. When you enjoy a grown woman you associated that with a grown body - curves and all - not one that looks like it's stuck in pre-pubescent(sp) or adolescent stage. You want to know that she's there, to wrap your arms and hands around some curves and you want something that is durable and fun to play with at night :)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
I think it's evolutionary. voluptous women are perceived as more fertile than skinny women. This would ensure that the lineage goes on. survival of the fittest.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
21 Nov 10
Well I prefer Medium built women, Beause they are good looking and almost easy to lift. Now to you quiry Men prefer Voluptuous Women because they want to have something in their hands and could play with eat some thing.Hugging a slim woemn feeling like hugging yourself once again or there is nothing at you or in your hands. Have a Nice day
@sjlskl (3382)
• Singapore
21 Nov 10
I prefer voluptuous woman with curve and some flesh. Personally, I find slender woman too bony and they are not my cup of tea.
@ansi09 (151)
• Tunisia
21 Nov 10
Personally, i like slender buit, but who have some meat on her back, if you know what i mean, that's who i am, i like woman who have some meat over her bones, haha. so skinny women for me are not even worthing the try to educe them, i know that other men adore skinny ladies, but not me :D I gess it depends from one person to another, that's life, like you said, you like chubby man, but most of the women love slim built man, it just what our desire tell us i suppose.