something boring in officeroom
By stronger0514
@stronger0514 (6)
China
November 22, 2010 12:40am CST
hi everyone:
i am employed in a international corporation,i am fresh here , working here less than 1 year,but our department manager is always pay much more attention to me , such as give me lots of help and others cannot get that like me.In addition, on one meeting ,he gave me a high praise during the meeting,but as we know , some of others working here for many years , they donot like this happen.so i feel much pressure right now.I am in the charge of designing drawing in terms of mechanical equipment.many basic knowledge i donot understand.When the daynight is coming ,i can not fall a sleep ,i am realy feel more pressure on me.I am only want to learing how to design and have good sleep night.
when you have these problem , how do you resolve .
any help will be pretty appreciated.
2 responses
@sjlskl (3382)
• Singapore
22 Nov 10
First of all, ask yourself this. Are you worthy of the praise? Are you there because of ability or curry flavoring? Once you have answer the questions, then find an appropriate time and ask you colleagues out for lunch or a drinking session. Let them know you better as a person.
@rayverkyle (18)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Here is the point my friend, the pressure that you are experiencing right now is the result of the kind of praises given to you. and you're afraid of losing the trust and confidence they are giving to you and also you are afraid of being belittled in public. here is my advice you. Clear up your mind. Concentrate on your thing. Just think positively and get motivated. and you will realize that in the end that you have done an efficiently "job well done". so relax. dont feel being pressured. just think that you are working and it is part of your work.
