Would you still date a guy or girl who suddenly gained a lot of weight?
By mayrah
@mayrah (1144)
United States
November 22, 2010 1:16am CST
Perhaps you were still single and looking for someone to date. Until one of your friend who's out of the country for 3 years at this moment send you a message in facebook, he or she told you that he/she is coming back this month. He/She invited you for date. You just remember how you like this person before, he or she's been your ultimate crush before but because at the time you first met he/she wasn't single so you just remain friends. And now he/she is letting you know that he/she' already single and available. What if sudden change in his/her physical appearance bothered you. You view in his facebook photos that he/ she had gained a lot of weight. Would you still date that person who's hoping you could be more than friends now? Why?
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2 responses
@rayverkyle (18)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Here is what i think. dating is always related with subjects like love, admiration,you like that person, infatuation. At this different subjects, the level of acceptance is very different. when true love intervenes, changing physical appearance over time is not a big deal. while for infatuation and the others, it might change so easily especially when the thing they admired, love, or liked is just only your beautiful physical appearance. so try to reflect on your real feelings
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
22 Nov 10
If i am in love with him, yes, but, i would suggest him in a nice way to play some sports and to keep a regime to lose the extra pounds, and i would help him to do that , because when you have someone beside you to help you and to encourage you, it is easier to do this.
