What do you want in certain discussion? Why?
By visavis
@visavis (5934)
Philippines
November 22, 2010 4:10am CST
Hi there,
In our everyday life inside home, in the office, in our friends hang-ups and others have various discussions from tiny issues up to big issues. On your part in the discussion what would you like somebody against you or everybody agree with you? Indeed we want is everybody agree with but I tell you, no discussion if everybody agree right? Since we are different perception and character expect of dis-agree.
So do you experienced here in mylot or outside here a discussion that everybody dis-agree with you. What was your re-action? Share with us your experience and opinion..
Remember: in one healthy discussion always dis-agree is integral part of it.
See you around..
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5 responses
@highschoolrazors8547 (293)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 10
First,what I want in a certain discussion is quality content rather than discussing about lame things.The issues must be unique,not repeated ones since we would have considered answering to the same discussion twice or more.In a discussion,there are always pros and cons brought by respondents.In my opinion,those responses should be taken in a positive way.Sometimes,we also encounter issues where some of the respondents are aggressive.Thus,respondents should control their tones while giving responses.An advice should be an advice and not something that is based on trying to get people down.
Cheers.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
hello friend,
If we always expect that all mylotters or friends agrees with us or with our topic,it's a discussion anymore.
What makes the topic becomes interesting is when someone disagree.
Even in real life,we should always expect everyone to agree in us.
For me,to balance everything there should be negative and positive of it.
It is more challenging when someone disagree with my opinion,and i like that in real life because it teaches me a lot.
I learn from people around me,from my loved ones and not so close friends either.
I appreciate people who made me realized my mistakes same as with topics and discussion,i learn from others opinion.
Have a good day always
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
In a discussion, i don't look to agree or disagree with anyone. I just state my point and it's up to the others if they're gonna agree or disagree with it. All i'm thinking is to state my point and get out of the way and let others say what they think.
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 10
if someone thought we were wrong I would ask where my one in a discussion and if he answers correctly then I would be grateful so next time I'm not one anymore and if someone does not agree with me that's okay because he was right
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@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Well...I have not experienced having all people disagreeing with me. I have found some who agree while some disagree. I guess people here in mylot have their individual points of view. I do respect them. If they so happen go beyond the line, I might leave it that way or reply with a smile and thanks. I could not avoid receiving comments that does not conform with what I wanted them to say about my discussions so, I don't mind at all. On the other hand, I must admit that there are some who are rude but I try not to give a great deal out of it. 
