are you shy?

I was also very shy before, especially when I was younger. I usually just stay in the house and when I go out I usually don't initiate contact with other people. At parties, or even family gatherings, I usually just stay in a corner and wait until someone talks to me first. Because of that people think I'm a snob, when in fact I'm just shy. My previous job helped me to deal with the shyness and how to deal with people.

I used to have a very similar problem when I was a little bit younger. I found it hard to even leave the house without the worry of someone judging me, or laughing at me, or just anything really. It really got me down, as it stopped me making friends or meeting new people, and I felt so alone. You have to think back to a time when you felt a lot more confident, like when you first met your husband perhaps? You must have been pretty confident to have flirted and dated with him. Maybe if you can go back to a time in your head when you had that full on confidence, one of the biggest confidence boosting times you remember, then you might be able to recapture that whenever you feel nervous or anxious about doing something new, or meeting people.

i'm also just like you i feel very shy to speak to new people and i wont hurt the person who hurt me. because of this i have faced many problems but still i'm not able to over come it.......