how do u sort ur life out when it gets crazy?

You need not say much honey as I know what you are feeling. This has been a really rough year for me, one like no other. I am not out of the woods yet and still get so discombobulated, the only thing you can do is try really hard to calm down and relax. Think positively and tell yourself there is truly nothing you can do to make things differently and take one day at a time with the hopes that the next day will be better. Try as hard as you can to get out of any form of negativity and by this I mean anyone who has issues you cannot spend time listening to them. As they will bring you yet further down and when you are alone you will feel like you are out of control and can't keep it together. Please have hope it is all we have to cling on and I truly wish you the best and PM anytime you feel you need to talk to someone.

To be honest, if my life is really crazy and getting out of hand, then I would find time to be on my own, then just think my life over... After that, I would seek guidance and pray to God. It would be helpful as well to be surrounded with family and friends after. Cheers!

You don't elaborate much about the troubles you are facing nowadays. Since you said here that your life is getting out of hand maybe something is terribly going on and it's out of your control. That is the worst thing to happen when you watch your own life crumbled to pieces and there is nothing you can do about it. It's like being lead in to the sacrificial lambs and you can do but stare at the gallows waiting to claim your life. It's indeed bad but you must learn to start somewhere to make things right again. Be positive always it's a start.

Hi caydensmom! I always love putting things down on paper. Perhaps it's just me that I need a written guide. But in my dark moments I realize they help me to see things in a wider perspective. And that has helped me to sort things out better too. Hope this helps.

We don't have much idea what to sort out. But I guess you should start from the one you want to keep the most. Try sorting out every aspect of your life. And maybe you get a little more details? A lot of myLotters here are good advisers and is very much willing to give you an advice. God bless you! :D

Write it out. What exactly is making your life crazy? And what steps can be done to make it less crazy? People make to-do lists when it comes to organizing your house, why not make a to-do list on how to organize your life? Make a list on what you need, what you don't need, what you want but don't need, and if those things you want are creating havoc in your life. Then take steps. When your house is a mess you don't start cleaning the whole thing, you start on one room and work your way through it. Do the same thing. Concentrate on the most important things first, then work your way through the rest of your list. Accomplishing goals, getting rid of people/things that are complicating your life, and organizing your time better.

Hi, caydensmom (93) The answer to that question is prayer, before, during, and after. God is in control of everything turn it over to him. Prayer works.