My Ex Is Bothering Me And Making Me Depressed
By cajimenez
@cajimenez (452)
Philippines
November 22, 2010 9:22pm CST
My ex husband is getting into my nerves again . We're not yet legally separated or annulled. But, I kick him out of the house when I decided I don't want to live with his abusive behavior again.
That hit his ego . Everytime he visits the kids, he still keeps on accusing me that I'm a bad mother etc... There are times, he appeared to be nice , but I remained firm with my decision not to trust him again.
He also tried to sexually harrassed me in front of the kids , verbally abusing me. But, I fought him.. He cannot physically harm me, because my father live with us.
Now, he's desperate move is not to give us enough finsncial support...
How can I go on with my life when this monster keeps on bothering me and still acts as if he owns us... I don't believe he can still change.. I accepted that.
But, that monster don't want to accept that he don't own us... What am I to do with this kind of egomaniac monster? He keeps on pulling me down.. Not only me but also the kids...
My friends says that he's a sick man... And I know it.. the problem is his mother and sister is supporting his twisted ways...
2 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Nov 10
It is unfortunate when his family is supportive of his evil ways, as if they cared so much for the children they would not condone it.
I am sorry to say that this man will be in your life until the children are of age and it will be unfortunate as you have to deal with it. But then there is the court system that may be able to help.
I sure wish you luck and hope things could be resolved.
@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
Yes, it is sad that my in-laws support his evil ways. Because they are protecting their selfish interest. As for my estrange husband, I don't know how long he'll keep his abusive ways. I am praying that one day , he'll get tired of his barbaric attitude. I am now taking one step at a time.. For now I am applying for a protection order and getting help from some women's group that deals with this kind of issues. Thank you hardworkinggurl for sharing...
@fanzejian (372)
• China
23 Nov 10
these are my advice that you could try
1)seek help from the police;
2)Seek community support;
3)seek support from law and national culture; if you are sure that he is sick ,just do that for you and your kids .coz kids need to live betterly .
@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
I am planning to do that. I'll be having counseling from a women's group that helps with this kind of problem. I hope it will work. Thank you fanzejian for sharing...
