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If you are far away from your family, it is important to establish a closeness with friends that enables friendship to take the place of family. By making a tradition of sharing birthdays,holidays and other special occasions with friends, you can achieve a sense of belonging. Sometimes our family members seem very different from ourselves in personality and lifestyle. In anger and disappointment we sometimes declare them non-people, non-family, and sometimes we secretly blame them for our unhappiness. This gets to be a regular merry-go-round and it is a very effective way of keeping ourselves lonely. It makes sense to try to recognize that our parents and siblings love us in their own ways, sometimes foreign to our ways. We can accept this caring for what it is or to be angry because of what it isn't. Sometimes it's helpful to examine why we are keeping ourselves lonely and playing the role of the homeless child. We can after all, stop demanding so much that is unrealistic from our families and accept the caring that is available to us from these persons and others. STRIVE TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS!

sometimes life is life... we dont really wanna do things...coz were not happy bout it..its just that WE HAVE TO...COZ ITS THE RIGHT THING.. but on the other hand..dont forget that life is a matter of choice... you can always chnage what you like... well thats all goodluck..and dont forget to pray..:)

What I normally do is make a mental note about the pros and cons as to what is making happy and unhappy in life. If there are things that absolutely make me unhappy and I cannot make changes as they are part of life obligations then I try as hard as I can to work around and make sure I am doing my best to assure the unhappiness is not something I am impinging on my self. Sometimes we must do things even though we do not like them but we are sort of obligated to do them. If they are things that I can ex out of my life then so be it after weighing out the cons, then they have to go.